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Sex videos diminish us all

Filed under: Uncategorized — admin at 8:12 pm on Wednesday, May 20, 2009

We’re at an all-time low.

Today’s voyeur scene is alive and well and overrun by sex videos. There is the Katherine Luna and ex-boyfriend sex video. There are the Hayden Kho and Brazilian, plus celebs, sex videos. And there is the threat of even more sex videos exploding, one of them reportedly involving a young star with an impeccable image. But of these, it is the Hayden Kho-Katrina Halili sex video which is currently all the rage.

RAGE.

That, in fact, should be the dominant word in all this. Rage that has nothing to do with being hot, even if these videos are the hottest ticket in town; rage that has only to do with feelings of revulsion and repugnance.

For these are the exact emotions we must be feeling—if we’re to remain human, if we’re to deserve the consciousness that alone separates us from the animals we share this earth with.

Equally vital, we must feel just these for the right reason.

And the right reason has to be that, with every second these videos are viewed, a human being is violated, and that, with each violation, the entire human race is diminished just that little bit more.

The women on that screen did not know, and did not consent, to being the lead players in a sex video.

Or, if initially they had knowledge, they’d been made to understand that these were for their private use, and they never at any time consented to having the videos go public.

Those captured moments were part of the natural, transactional intimacy between the women and their lovers. That is obvious. And in that setting, certainly, they’d undress. Certainly, they’d kiss each other wherever and whenever. Certainly, they’d abandon reason to lust, be servile and slavish or dominant and in control, whichever makes them happy. And who’s to do otherwise? That is what lovemaking is!

Unfortunately, we’re a society with an unhealthy discomfiture and curiosity about sex. So caught up are we in our religiosities and small-mindedness and duplicities, we’re conditioned to see sex as a thing to hide. We’re prudes, in short. As such, many of us-the female species included—look on with both scorn and envy at women with fearless views about their bodies and their sexuality. (Say I’m wrong.)

Back-ending this ugliness is our double standard of morality. We’ve heard this line to death, but it was true then and it’s true now. We’re not distressed just by sex as a subject, we’re especially distressed by it when it involves women. We’re also idiotic enough to think that men lose nothing, even if they’re the studs in the sex video and never agreed to perform for strangers. We just assume the men score. We just know the women are ruined.

It’s not even because we put women up on a pedestal, or respect them inordinately, or feel this compulsion to protect them. No, every day that is getting harder to believe.

Because, if that were so, we wouldn’t be making a fiesta out of viewing these videos that violate women!

We wouldn’t be standing around our desks and calling everyone to come and watch—like it was just another television show, like it was entertainment, like no real lives were involved.

We wouldn’t be hosting small private parties and showcasing these videos via high-definition equipment, while we sipped our drinks and made polite dinner talk.

We wouldn’t be texting friends to provide the links to these sites.

And we wouldn’t be snickering and guffawing, while slobbering all over the place with lewd jokes.

Nope, the only reason we distress over women in these videos is because we think they’re cheap. We see them as beneath us. They give us a bad name. We fancy ourselves never getting caught up in something like this. From our safe little worlds, we think we’re above it all.

Wrong!

In the first place, why should making love be beneath us? What’s abhorrent about lovemaking? As to never getting caught up with love and lust—why, that’d be totally missing out on one really robust human experience! And if we actually place ourselves above all physical intimacy—not as vocation and choice, but as issue of distaste for the act—that must be when our hearts are shriveled, like sun-dried prunes.

And why can’t this scandal happen to us? Or to our sisters, nieces, cousins, daughters?

Katrina was a pretty, 21-year-old who was earning her keep in 2007, when she fell in love with Hayden, then a handsome, 27-year-old doctor of medicine. Except for the fact that the doctor was publicly known to be the boyfriend of Vicki Belo, a doctor much wealthier and far older than he, there was nothing especially scary about him. And except for the fact that Katrina was already FHM’s sexiest woman in the world the year before, and would be voted so again that year, there was nothing especially different about her.

She was just a young, liberated working girl, full of life, with the world before her—much like our sisters and nieces and cousins and daughters. And like many of these girls, at some point Katrina fell in love, and gave her all to her man.

She was also not an insensitive girl. In my interview with her early this year, for YES! Magazine, she acknowledged that Vicki Belo was an issue in her relationship with Hayden. This is how she handled it: She played the suffering wife. Her man and Vicki could go out in the open and enjoy their partnership; she would stay in the condo and wait for when he could find time for her. She never imposed on his schedule; she waited, even if oftentimes she cried while doing so. By denying herself the pleasures of having long conversations with him, of eating out in restaurants with him, of attending showbiz events with him as escort, she believed she was already paying for her sins to Vicki.

By her reckoning, she was behaving as decently as any woman in love could. A woman, by the way, who had been told by her man that she was his other partner “in a parallel life.”

Since then, she has admitted on national television: “Ang tanga-tanga ko. Pero na-in love ako. Pasensiya na po…”

Indeed, how was she to know this doctor would have a fetish for videos? How was she to know there would be a sick environment around the good-looking fellow—of a world seemingly measured by luxury goods and travel, with friends he has wronged and who hated him, of a whole value system neither educated nor decent?

It is she who has been violated here. It is Katrina who has been abused—not once, or twice, but thrice! First, when her lover took videos of their most sexual moments without her knowledge and consent. Second, when some heartless bastards uploaded the videos on the Net. And third, when an unthinking, unfeeling public viewed the videos and enjoyed themselves.

KATRINA’S VIDEOS. As early as May 9, with the rumblings of a Hayden sex video starting to mount, I told the PEP staff that no way would we upload. This didn’t even have to be about Katrina, whom I  know personally. This could’ve been about any girl, a complete stranger, and I would still say no.

I don’t even think anyone should ask why. It is just so plain and so clear, there is no need for reason or discourse. It just takes instinct. Intuition. Reflex. It’s a gut thing. A sense of right and wrong kicking in. A universal moral language, if you will.

This is a video, after all, that has pained, tainted, exposed, stripped naked, humiliated, and practically killed the soul of a girl of 23. This girl, whose only crime is that she fell in love with the wrong man, now suffers the once-pure joys of her affections and trust being made entertainment fodder by anyone with access to a computer. She is a woman against whom stones have been cast.

Let me make this clear again because I will not align myself with the censors of this earth: I am not revolted by a sex video because of its scenes of intimacies in bed—or on the couch or in the powder room or wherever two consenting adults desire to unleash their love and lust at each other. The moments between lovers—be they gentle or wild, physical or verbal, cerebral or carnal—are to me an issue of joy. I maintain that making love has to be one of the most powerful intimacies of all time.

But these sex videos circulating of Katrina Halili and Hayden Kho are a different matter altogether. They no longer fall under moments between lovers. They’ve become moments of monstrous aggression by one partner against another.

Hayden has shamed and disrespected Katrina, a woman who had loved him with all the faith of her youth. And whether he ever loved her back or not, he had no right to put her in harm’s way. Even if he never intended for the videos to be found by another soul, he had no right to include an unsuspecting girl in his inglorious playtime.

Hayden Kho should not be allowed to live this down for the rest of his natural-born life.

On May 10, the first video arrived in PEP, along with three screen captures. They were sent by some anonymous bloke who probably thought he/she was doing us a favor. Well, wrong again. I refused to even look at the video or the pictures. There was never any upload.

As the days passed, we heard about more videos. These were now reaching private emails and more sites. Still, PEP would not budge. Instead, I called Omar Sortijas, Katrina’s handler. Beyond my instinctive response, I wanted to know the facts.

Did Katrina know the videos were being taken?

Omar says, “Alam ni Katrina yong sumasayaw sila, at yong dalawa pa, na nagsasalita pa siya. Pero ang alam niya, pinapabura niya right away kay Hayden. Ang alam niya burado na.”

What about a fourth video that is said to be the most graphic?

Omar says, “Iyan talaga hindi alam ni Katrina. Naka-webcam ata iyon.”

Omar also says that they’ve spoken to Hayden, who finally admitted to having made four videos. Hayden has also given them the names of the only other people with a copy of these videos—people he is said to strongly suspect caused the upload of the videos on the Net. Katrina’s father and some lawyers are already meeting to help out Katrina. Prominent personalities have also begun to speak up on her behalf.

But overall, emotions aren’t stable. For a long time, Katrina felt down because her mother, who has not spoken to her because of this scandal, finally got on the phone with her a few days back, only to end up giving her a big, angry sermon. She may deserve it, Omar admits, but it is not something she needs now. In fact, Katrina told Omar, it is something she cannot handle now.

Then just before she went onboard for the May 16 StarTalk interview, Katrina seemed  all right, was neat, and fairly composed, Omar says. But when the questions started coming, she just broke down and couldn’t stop. Everything was captured on TV.

But more recently, she was buoyed up again, this time by calls from fellow young stars, all of whom felt very badly for her, and the seeming helplessness of it all.

I said to Omar that I was thankful Katrina was a strong girl. Another girl might have been suicidal by now. But I was taken aback by Omar’s reply. He said, “Natatakot nga ako. Kasi ang batang iyon, pabigla-bigla magdisisyon. At malakas ang loob niyang gawin ang gusto niyang gawin. Kaya hangga’t maaari, ayoko siyang naiiiwan mag-isa. Paggaling ko ng taping, takbo na ako run sa kanya kaagad.”

THE PRESS. I’m buoyed up myself by colleagues. All the ones I spoke to uniformly feel disgust and sadness with the sex videos. At a press conference for Sharon Cuneta’s latest album of kiddie songs, Children’s Rhymes and Lullabies, I was at a table with various writers. Here is what they had to say:

Mario Bautista, who writes for the Manila Bulletin, among other print outfits: “Hayden and the people who posted it in the Net should be taken to court.”

Rowena Agilada, columnist for Tempo: “Nakakaawa si Katrina kasi affected ang career niya. Wala na siyang trabaho. Di na siya kinakausap ng nanay at kapatid.”

Nora Calderon, contributor to PEP, referring to Hayden Kho: “Wala ba siyang nanay o kapatid na babae?”

Remy Umerez, columnist for People’s Journal: “Dios na ang bahala sa kanila.”

Another person at the table was Baby Gil, VIVA Entertainment Inc. vice president for corporate public relations. She said: “The people who did this are sick!”

I myself thought of all the sickos out there doing harm to Katrina, and I asked myself what the giant GMA-7 is doing for her at this time. She is now in the fight of her life. She’s fighting all these sickos on all fronts, and she needs every bit of help she can get from a company she has served well.

Finally, I asked Allan Madrilejos, the editor-in-chief of FHM, where Katrina is a favorite cover girl, how he felt. Allan, visibly affected by all this, did not want to say a few inadequate words that were no match for his thoughts. He sent this email instead:

“Katrina Halili’s thread in the fhm.com.ph (http://www.fhm.com.ph/board/index.php?topic=3139.0) is one of the most viewed threads in our forum.

“That it’s buzzing with tremendous outpouring of support for Katrina in light of the recent and rapid circulation of her controversial sexy videos with Dr. Hayden Kho says so much about how much FHM’s only two-time 100 Sexiest Women in The World Campaign winner is loved.

“This is not blind love at play here, but understanding, one that is rooted in respect for Katrina, her privacy, her right to defend herself.

“The unfortunate spread of these sexy videos is totally irresponsible, a low blow that’s very much undeserved. It has come at a time when the issue has been milked dry to its juiciest bit.

“Yes, we know Katrina has made a mistake. She has bravely and humbly faced the problem head on, coming out on national TV in December and later sitting down with YES! for an exclusive in its March issue.

“She has sincerely  apologized for all the hurt she had caused. Hasn’t she shed enough tears?

“We at FHM know Katrina to be a survivor and we sincerely wish she’d summon the courage to fight on. How and when she decides to launch her counter-attack is totally up to her.

“She rightfully deserves a moment to cry, to be outraged, to just be with herself, her family and friends, to evaluate her moves, to pick up the pieces, to move on. It will be a battle, true, but there is strength in knowing there are people who believe in her.

“We wish this could ease her burden somehow.”

If words can make things right… I wouldn’t mind pouring in the words and the emotions that would change things around. Not just for Katrina, but for all the other girls violated by these sex videos, and all the girls and boys who will yet be violated, if shame doesn’t visit us all soon.

187 Comments »

Comment by shirota

May 20, 2009 @ 8:23 pm

well said.

Comment by Helmholtz

May 20, 2009 @ 8:30 pm

I totally agree with the writer….Thanks for sharing with us your strong views about this latest showbiz circus…

Comment by goojunpyo

May 20, 2009 @ 8:44 pm

Katrina Kaya mo yan!! We are here to support you!

Comment by shenead

May 20, 2009 @ 8:49 pm

Ms. Jo-Ann, thank you for writing this. Very well said indeed. I hope and pray that people will stop condemning Katrina. She sincerely apologised already. Is it not enough?

Katrina, everything comes to pass and nothing comes to stay. Keep on praying for inner healing. God bless.

Comment by susan eden

May 20, 2009 @ 8:51 pm

naiyak naman ako sa isinulat mo joann! feel na feel ko! salamat for writing this in defense of katrina and all the rest of the victims of this unspicable voyeurism! god bless katrina. may she find strength in the outpouring of support from her father, friends and fans. everything shall come to pass.

Comment by Marie_Of_Dubai

May 20, 2009 @ 8:53 pm

IT FEEL SO BAD, KASI BABAE DIN AKO. SOBRANG KAHIHIYAN ANG INABOT NI KATRINA ON THIS VIDEO NA KUNG SINO MANG WALANG PUSO ANG NAG-UPLOAD NITO SANA TAMAAN KA NAMAN KAHIT KONTING KAHIHIYAN. ANG KAPAL NG MUKHA, HE/SHE DIDN’T THINK THE RESULT OF UPLOADING THE VIDEO. I WATCH THE FULL VIDEO U CAN SEE THERE HOW’S HAYDEN PLAN TO RECORD IT. ALAM NYA KUNG SAAN ANGGULO DAPAT, PAANO IPAKITA SI KATRINA SA CAM. SHAME ON YOU HAYDEN, TAMA ANG SABI NI SEN. BONG REVILLA DAPAT TANGGALAN KA NG LISENSYA.

Comment by Michelle

May 20, 2009 @ 9:06 pm

You hit it bulls eyes Ms Joan!

Katrina is clearly the victim and she does not deserve the public’s “rage”… And you are certainly correct abut GMA, what are they doing to support their talent?

Comment by camdengurl

May 20, 2009 @ 9:12 pm

As a woman, I agree with you Ms. Jo-Ann and to all who understand what Katrina’s going through. My husband and I have seen some part of the videos, and we could feel nothing but so sorry for this girl.. I just hope that Katrina would keep fighting and remain strong as she’s being scrutinized by some insensitive people. She needs the support of Kababaihan and all other victims of this evil Hayden Kho.

Comment by tetsky

May 20, 2009 @ 9:19 pm

All you need to do Katrina is to really really be brave in facing all of these… everything will have its end… but dont forget that you were also an accomplice of this act for participating in it… but the sudden upload of it, is really very irresponsible and unmanful of whoever did it…

just stay strong for your family and never mind your fans.. because if your fans are really intelligent and understanding enough, then your first apology should have been accepted…

be stronger and have faith… everything will end soon

Comment by Rose

May 20, 2009 @ 9:49 pm

Hayden Kho is obviously gay trying hard to be a womanizer showing all his lustful videos to prove that he’s a man but indeed he’s so gay from head to toe but he can’t show it to everyone. He’s a closet pervert doctor sicko gay. He should take his own videos doing it with another guy instead but he knows he can’t do that because he’s trying too hard to be a macho, a macho dancer indeed!

Comment by Tomasina

May 20, 2009 @ 9:53 pm

very well said Ms. Ma’am.

I do not condone what she did, knowing that Hayden had a gf at that time…pero..

bilang babae, my sympathy is with her. this doctor is sick! and should be stripped from his medical license.

pano mo pagtitiwalaan ang doktor na to?

and for the first time, napahanga mo ako ng Senator Bong Revilla. regardless of what people are saying na politika lang to ni senator or blah blah…bottomline, we/most esp. women will be protected from this kind of misfortunes.

those videos and the sight of sicko hayden kho get me really worked up.

katrina, sue this man! you don’t deserve what he’s done to you.

Comment by amcdg

May 20, 2009 @ 9:57 pm

thanks ms. joan for ur kind heart and u symphatized with katrina

Comment by max

May 20, 2009 @ 9:58 pm

so beautiful and so well timed article for katrina and all the women wronged by a man called hayden the predator.

Comment by makoy

May 20, 2009 @ 10:06 pm

shame on hayden.. he is sick!
i challenge PEP to lead a campaign for people to stop viewing and uploading in different blogs the video in respect for Katrina and for all the girls violated here.
i ask PRC to investigate and cancel the license of this Psychotic Doctor.
Katrina, be strong!

Comment by Lyn

May 20, 2009 @ 10:09 pm

Baka si vicki belo meron ding hidden cam during their most intimate moment with hayden kho. sino pang babae ang magtitiwala ke hayden kho. if ako ang nanay ng babaeng pakakasalan ni hayden, di ako papayag kasi baka kahit asawa na ni hayden i-video pa nya. si vicki tarnish na din ang reputation because of hayden pero she still supports hayden. is it just sex also? does vicki enjoy his pervertness?

Comment by shawie6702

May 20, 2009 @ 10:23 pm

katrina doesnt deserve this. i will pray for you. hang in there. in the end, nasayo ang victory!

Comment by kc83

May 20, 2009 @ 10:27 pm

This is what you call Schadenfreude. More than mere curiosity, gossipmongering, and the need to feel part of the in-the-know crowd….people like to see a big star get humiliated, because it makes them feel better about their own little worthless lives.

Comment by stanley

May 20, 2009 @ 10:45 pm

Katrina,
I pray for you. May you have more strength and courage to face this controversies that you’re facing. God is with you, and we are all behind you.

HAYDEN KHO is soooooooooo SICK! Bong Revilla is right, this man should be stripped off with his license as a doctor. HAYDEN KHO is a PERVERT OF THE HIGHEST KIND!!! He is sick! I would never, never in my entire life go to this man and ask for his services. He is sick and he’s not mentally stable to treat patients. He’s not practicing his profession anyway because he knows he can get more money from Vicky. To you Joan, I applaud you for writing this blog. Katrina maybe wrong, but she was just a girl who was madly and blindly in love to the wrong person. I really feel for her! She is the victim here.

ATTENTION BOARD OF MEDICINE! PLEASE,PLEASE,PLEASE HELP US ALL!

CONCERN CITIZEN FROM HOUSTON, TEXAS

Comment by Blonde-Skinny-B!tch

May 20, 2009 @ 10:50 pm

…Times have changed, if you haven’t noticed Ms. Editor! ;)

…the fact is Ms. Paris Hilton became famous not coz she was a prim&proper Hilton heiress but coz of her notorious sex video! …society’s imperfection? or God’s sense of humor? Oops hahaha! 8)

…I say let “evolution” takes it course! whoohoo! 8)

Comment by stanley

May 20, 2009 @ 10:56 pm

ATTENTION BOARD OF MEDICINE!

PLEASE REVOKE HAYDEN KHO’S LICENSE. THIS MAN IS SICK! MENTALLY UNSTABLE!

ATTENTION VICKY BELO:
your man is psycho! In a year or two, he will SURELY release sex videos of YOU and HAYDEN. Just watch!

HAYDEN KHO:
God is watching!

Comment by pashnea_sa_sirenea

May 20, 2009 @ 11:03 pm

Siguro may kinalaman si Dra. Vicki Belo sa paglabas ng video,,malamang pinaprove niya kay Hayden Kho kung gaano siya nito kamahal,,at anu ang kayang gawin ni Hayden just to prove he really loves her.

Grabe naman, masyadong mapanghusga ang mga tao,,ang hindi makakayanan eh yung mga comment na sobrang masakit para kay katrina.

Dapat lang din kasi tayong mga babae maging maingat sa mga ginagawa natin,,,kahit pa gaano natin kamahal ang isang tao,,dapat hindi tau pumayag na basta i video ang mga intimate moments natin.

Kaya tuloy kung minsan tayong babae na ang dehado pero at the end tayo pa din ang may kasalanan,,,tayo pa din kasi ang responsable sa lahat ng actions natin

Comment by AKOKAZE

May 20, 2009 @ 11:04 pm

i really feel for Katrina.. na-guilty ako kasi isa ko dun sa nagbother magdownload ng vid (the most graphic one) out of curiosity even bothering to download the (unsafe) program that would run the file… (kaya pag na-virus ang computer ko yan ang napala ko) so feeling ko pagkatapos kong mapanood eh isa na ko sa nagcrucify k katrina.. so sa mga nagdownload ng file katulad ko please burahin na natin kung may natitira pa tayong respeto sa ating sarili.. para naman sa nanay at kapatid ni katrina.. ngayon po ung panahon na kelangan ng pang-unawa ng anak/kapatid nio.. nagkamali sya at nagsisi na ng sobra-sobra.. intindihin po natin sya. very well said ms. maglipon!

Comment by anoba

May 20, 2009 @ 11:29 pm

sobra-sobra na nga itong nangyayari kay katrina. what’s even worst is that people judge her as tho she did them wrong. tao lang naman si katrina, she made a mistake, and asked for forgiveness (kahit sa mga taong nakikichismis lang sa buhay nya)
bakit d sila magalit kay hayden na nag video ng patago, and hindi ako naniniwalang walang copy si hayden(according to belo) dahil sya kaya kumuha kamusta naman yon?

Comment by charismadear

May 21, 2009 @ 12:27 am

kudos to you jo-ann!
i could never have said it better.
i hope katrina stays strong and fight these monsters who did this to her.

Comment by ochoochona

May 21, 2009 @ 12:50 am

What comes around goes around. Katrina made a mistake and she’s reaping her karma now. It takes two to tango, you know. Too bad some irresponsible and heartless people got hold of these videos.If Hayden was the only one who got copies,wala sana problema. Hayden and Katrina are both victims of circumstances. Dont put all the blame to the guy.He would’nt want to ruin his character and future. Give the guy a brak. Yong senator na nakikisawsaw, stop na please. ayusin mo buhay mo. dami dami ka anak sa labas, may sustento ba?

Comment by mandersnork

May 21, 2009 @ 1:00 am

i hope katrina wont make a bad move this time i mean i hope shes not that suicidal.. malalampasan din nya itong problema at sana ituloy nya ung demanda. i hope GMA7 will help.. paging GMA7 please help katrina im not a big fan of here pero tinapak tapakan na ung pgkatao nya tulungan natin cia so she can survive with all of these.. ito lng ang kya kung gawin ang mag post ng comment for her to show my support

Comment by ragingmom4

May 21, 2009 @ 1:09 am

i feel for katrina and her family.no woman deserves what is happening to her.it goes without saying that she had her faults,the greatest of which is having such little respect for herself that she entered a “secret” relationship.whether blinded by attention or affection or even lust,the poor unsuspecting girl was abused over and over again by an ass preventing to be a man.what a jerk!many would say that its her karma,or even that she deserved it,but who amongst us did not do anything stupid when we honestly thought we are in love?i wouldn’t wish this scandal to my worst enemy.

moreover,what is the point of releasing this in public? the “separation” happened so many months ago.the parties have moved on.there’s a rumor that two are a couple again(which is beyond my comprehension,but that’s another story)the affair itself was 2 years ago!the only person who is sicker that hayden is the evil one who uploaded this to the net.that is assuming hayden himself didn’t have anything to do with it.as maybe a final proof that none of the women mattered to him besides his “princess”.GOD forbid that the princess has given a go signal.nonetheless,the recording to its uploading to the net is PURE EVIL!for what was the point?who are they destroying?

as a mother, i feel for the mothers of these women.when we received email containing these videos,admittedly curiosity got the better of me and opened it.but after a couple of minutes,i was sick to my stomach and could no longer continue.again,what a jerk!i just hope the girls rise above this,i dont know how but im praying they would.

i just hopet that justice would be served.hopefully this wont be made into another grandstanding by seemingly concerned politicians. as to the perverts who are behind this may you burn in hell!(and the soonest the better)

one more thing to kris lawrence,shut up!

Comment by stephaniefrommillbrae

May 21, 2009 @ 3:17 am

whats new, karamihan sa mga artista very low ang moral values, kakahiya kayo.

walang manggagamit, kung walang magpapagamit.. cheap!

Comment by ilokana

May 21, 2009 @ 4:01 am

VERY WELL SAID MS. JOANNE.

i admire your writing.the emotions of a mother is there. thank you for giving decency and professionalism to a world of fakes and pretentions. bravo! bravo!
people should take inspiration on how you see things.
some people make sawsaw but you chose to make a stand. thats the difference. thank you ms. joanne. your a gift to the thinking readers.

Comment by princess_snow

May 21, 2009 @ 5:54 am

I commend you Ms. Maglipon for this article. People ought to realize that Katrina and the other two girls in the video are victims, hence, we are not suppose to scorn or condemn them. Rather, we should condemn the acts of the pervert, HAYDEN KHO and the person/(s) responsible for the spread of the videos. As for Katrina, I still see her as a person worthy of respect, just like the rest of us.

Comment by commentary

May 21, 2009 @ 6:34 am

From hitad to heroine?

At the center of the current sex video controversy is Starstruck alumna Katrina Halili. Sexy videos of her rendezvous with former multi-timing boyfriend Hayden Kho have surfaced and now being widely circulated on the Internet and being sold by your favorite pirated DVD peddler.

She has cried foul and called herself a victim. Grandstanding politicos came to her rescue and gave their speeches in Congress and in front of the media. The leading women’s rights group and lady activists defended their new poster girl for feminism.

It is very uncanny that only a few months ago, she was being scorned by the public for being the “other woman” who was responsible for breaking up the May-December affair of Kho and Dr. Vicki Belo.

Did the release of these videos absolve the starlet of her misdeeds in the past? Was she successful in shedding her “hitad” image to become a heroine?

Comment by SallyJupiter

May 21, 2009 @ 7:06 am

Very well said.

Comment by manipsed

May 21, 2009 @ 7:26 am

This is very well-written. I detest the fact that we all think it is the women who have everything to lose. And it’s true that all of us are diminished or degraded by the proliferation of these videos.

I disagree, however, on one point:

“She was also not an insensitive girl. In my interview with her early this year, for YES! Magazine, she acknowledged that Vicki Belo was an issue in her relationship with Hayden. This is how she handled it: She played the suffering wife. Her man and Vicki could go out in the open and enjoy their partnership; she would stay in the condo and wait for when he could find time for her. She never imposed on his schedule; she waited, even if oftentimes she cried while doing so. By denying herself the pleasures of having long conversations with him, of eating out in restaurants with him, of attending showbiz events with him as escort, she believed she was already paying for her sins to Vicki.”

Inasmuch as i support Katrina in this fight and that no one deserves to be in the position that she is right now, i would not exactly downplay her act of cheating. It is in no way acceptable regardless of how the other woman sacrifices or behaves. We are all accountable for the consequences of our actions (sex video NOT included).

But that is not the issue. You’re absolutely right that the women should not be judged at all. It was by no fault of theirs that the videos were made public.

Comment by afghangirl

May 21, 2009 @ 7:47 am

Very well said Ms. Maglipon. Hat’s off to you for not cashing in on this issue. Like you I feel revulsion for Hayden and sympathy for Ms. Halili. I hope Katrina finds solace in the fact that what cannot kill her will only make her stronger.

I sincerely hope the sexual predator get stripped of the privilege of being a medical doctor and a lot of jail time to boot.

Comment by janice

May 21, 2009 @ 8:25 am

let’s pray for katrina to fight and recovery to this issue’s..SHAME ON YOU HAYDEN KHO…

Comment by pep_reader_online

May 21, 2009 @ 8:33 am

i really feel for katrina. i wish her to be strong. and yes, ms. jo-an is right, what’s gma doing to help her with this fight? what!? by not giving her projects.! i am an avid kapuso, but by how things are going right now, i am starting to loose interest.

Comment by butter

May 21, 2009 @ 9:01 am

very well said ms. joann

words are not enough to define the kind of creature hayden kho is.

Comment by usherpink

May 21, 2009 @ 9:17 am

let’s pray for Katrina that she survives all the trials she is facing now.

Comment by tia go

May 21, 2009 @ 9:20 am

Thank you for taking the effort to write this kind of view. thank you for acknowledging who the real victim is. my heart goes to Katrina. this thing is too much for her. to those people who blindly accused her it being her fault, shame on you. To katrina, be strong. start over. I have not seen the video and have no intentions to. i will judge you by the work you do, by the talent you have but never by this video. be strong. and pray it will be over soon.

Comment by deanslister

May 21, 2009 @ 10:33 am

Nice one ms. joan. Dapat lang managot ang mga “animal” na yun. Mga may sira lang sa pag-iisip ang makakagawa nun. As a woman also, I do my own little way in showing support for Katrina’s fight by not watching the videos. I have all the opportunity to do so but I opted not. A friend of mine texted me if I wanted to watch the videos since he has all four, I texted back that I have no intention of doing so and instead admonished him that he should stop sharing the said videos “dahil kawawa nman si Katrina”. I am not a Kat fan but my heart goes out to her, I just pray that she will be given justice. I also hope her family, especially her mother, would be the first ones she can run to. I just wonder what is GMA7 doing for her. And to our lawmakers, pakibilisan ang pagpasa ng batas laban sa “voyeurism” bago pa kayo mismo ang makita sa mga videos. Sa mga tao na merong said videos, please stop the sharing, let’s pity the girl, may mga nanay at kapatid na babae din tayo. Just my two cents.

Comment by pepfanatic

May 21, 2009 @ 10:48 am

Naku, naiirita talaga ako dyan kay Mario Bautista. Naaawa sya kay Katrina pero pag kay Regine kung matira nya sa newspaper, ganun-ganun na lang at mali-maling info pa ang binibigay sa reader.

Dapat isa din si Mario Bautista sa mga dapat dalhin sa court. lols

Comment by anne577

May 21, 2009 @ 10:54 am

thanks ms jo. Stay strong kat. i’m praying you could get through these well. God bless.

Comment by kagandahantalaga

May 21, 2009 @ 10:56 am

everybody deserves a second chance… just Pray Kat..

Comment by grace

May 21, 2009 @ 10:59 am

I cried sa blog mo,,,ur ryt Katrina dosent deserve any of 8… sa mga gumawa ng video kakarmahin rn kau

Comment by jellybean

May 21, 2009 @ 11:05 am

sa nangyari affected talaga ang career ni katrina….pero si hayden tanggalan man siya ng license i’m sure sasaluhin siya ni dra.belo…katrina is the one who’s in the losing end.pity her talaga…ang sympathy ng public asa kanya pero i hope with the sympathy ay wag na nila panoorin o tignan pa…

saka sana di lang kay katrina maawa ang public sa ibang babae din na nasa scandal na to

Comment by pussywillow

May 21, 2009 @ 11:27 am

ms joan, like what i did during the height of your controversy vs RG, i am supporting katrina all the way.

you are such an idol in writing your stance. so filled with heart and objectivity.

good luck!

Comment by kirsten

May 21, 2009 @ 11:41 am

Joan, ur indeed such a woman..for saying these things.
Instead of taking advantage of others misery , that could provide you more visitor in your site, but you remained a mother and a good media perosnality instead.you defended here like you own daughter yearning for support,understanding and justice..Thanks to you..thanks for speaking up for her..thanks for speaking up for all the rest of woman who have violated as well but donthave the power adn strenght to face and come out in the open for their rights…
i m a masscom grad and fellt pride to be knwing there were a true blooded media peronality who dooesnbt enticed on the commercialism of this world…
To katrina, this will ocme to pass.

Comment by kirsten

May 21, 2009 @ 11:54 am

After reading I felt guilty that i have this id, to check the video.After reading your posted message below, i felt theres a need to post this on much sought and most numbered social networking website,,
your messge is an eye opener for the judgemental public, that sociologist can say , used as excused as their human nature.Im really thinking now to post or not to post…or to share this site ,as they say, if you wnat to end the issue better not talk about it..However others still talks about it..So lets give them the “Good talk” out of the issue..and this one saids it all..respect for HER,,,and somebody should be taken account with..^^Thnaks for your message…well said..

Comment by SC

May 21, 2009 @ 11:59 am

I really felt sorry for Kat…But I know whatever is she into right now, she can handle it… She’s one tough woman who can fight against all these…

Pero parang hindi ko naririnig o nakikita ang support ng GMA sa kanya…naringgan ko na ang support ng mga kapwa nya artista sa syete at ang buong senado at ang masa, pero asan ang GMA?

Comment by japs050503

May 21, 2009 @ 1:11 pm

Go Katrina Go!!!1this guys are sick and there are many people here who understands and support you all the way!!!!!

Comment by gossiphungry

May 21, 2009 @ 1:16 pm

HEAR! HEAR!

true enough, NOONE, NOBODY deserves to be humiliated, even she/he is wrong.. in any form…

to those people,like Caliente, who keep on posting that Katrina deserves it… think again, can U accept ur words when this thing happen to ur own sister or mother..

Hayden Kho is a sick person. If Belo has something to do with this.. ur sick too girl… if Belo still with Hayden.. ur sooo sick girl…

Katrina, everything will be alright! Dont give up!! we are with you!!

Comment by lia lee

May 21, 2009 @ 1:31 pm

thank you for sharing this article with your readers. your strong views on this issue will surely influence a lot of women to stand and fight. it’s high time to implement a strong law that will punish individuals as sick as hayden kho. their is no justification on what he did. he’s license should be revoke and let him not practice medicine again. he is not helping his fellow countrymen. shame on this sick guy. i hope this is the end of hayden. sobrang nakakasawa na mukha nya sa tv. sana maging bebe gandanghari nalang sya. what he’s doing is not manly at all…pervert na bakla talaga.

Comment by jaycee_27

May 21, 2009 @ 1:35 pm

Thanks Ms. Maglipon for your sympathy to katrina..

From the start namn she admitted na nagkamali sya, so cguro enough na un at napagbayaran na nya she suffer already.

Shame on you hayden!!!!!!!!!1

Sna Ms. Maglipon, Ipabasa mo to kay katrina para malamn nya marming babae all over the world na nasa likod nya.

She needs to be Strong this time..

Comment by Ha! anu daw

May 21, 2009 @ 2:25 pm

ha! nosebleed! hinde ko naintindihan… English…
basahin ko nga ng sampung beses… tanga ba ako umintindi… o hinde ko lang maintindihan yung article… basta sex videos yun na yun…

Comment by madam01

May 21, 2009 @ 3:25 pm

katrina has been apologizing for sometime…public apology at that…hindi madaling umamin at magsisi sa harap ng camera. you have your pride, image and self-respect to protect and consider. pero kat did that…and the public is forgiving…then came this video…from whatever angle you looked at it, mabababoy talaga ang pagkatao ng kahit sinong babae…talong talo si katrina dito…at yung walanghiyang lalake, nasaan? ayun nagpapasarap…but then, just look at the positive side of it. there are people who are helping katrina find her way back. sana nga lang mas mabigyan sya ng support ng GMA, which she served for the longest time… at sana matapos na itong problema nya…she’s still young…may future pa sya… at sana maging lesson ito sa ibang tao…wag gawing laro-laro ang pagvivideo ng mga se-x-ual fantasies…dapat parusahan ang dapat maparusahan…

Comment by Shi

May 21, 2009 @ 4:04 pm

well said.

I watched those 3 videos out of curiosity, I feel bad for these girls, obviously they are not aware that their deed was being taped. Sick Hayden Kho must pay for all the damage. My husband said, “Hindi nakakaarouse panuorin yan, nakakaawa sila… lalo na yung sa model/doctor. nabiktima sila ng sira ulong hayden na yun”
This words came from a guy na hindi pala porke sex videos same ang effect to them.

To all victims… it will pass, people nowadays are open-minded, not a prejudice who will jump to a conclusion without seeing all the angles.

Comment by Blonde-Skinny-B!tch

May 21, 2009 @ 4:11 pm

…Butt I must say Dr. Hayden Kho sure got the balls to post that so called sex video using a cheap low resolution videocam! …hmmm you call that a sex video, butt where’s the sex? like haller “pipol”? Duh! …onsikantot I must say the Senator has “bigger balls” coz coz he populated the town of Cavite using “public funds!” Oops! …the irony of it all! hahaha! Oh well ;)

…Ms. Katrina Halili …she’s freakin dumb ass! not articulate at all! trying to sound like a victim caught half naked hmmm??? …when everybody knows todays Hollywood celebrities are just dying to pose in their “birthday suits” the cover of that 70’s icon Playboy Magazine, …I don’t blame them, coz it’s ssso liberating! uh-huh! 8)

…fyi Adam and Eve where ssso cool “naked” in God’s paradise! until man’s “organized religion” said it’s not cool, …Whatever!!! 8)

Comment by bigfoot12

May 21, 2009 @ 4:26 pm

no excuses from hayden would be ever enough to compensate this mess… i am really sorry for the girls.. no one deserves this kind of humiliation beyond public eye.. hopefully, people behind propagating these videos would suffer consequences of their action… they were so selfish not to think the impact of these to the three victims (and their love ones) just to get even with hayden…

to the media: please stop showing those clips and pictures on national tv. you’re not helping, it makes the situation even worst… instead, find hayden and make him suffer!!

to hayden: show your face COWARD!!

to katrina and other victims: don’t stop praying for forgiveness, strenght and guidance to our Dear Lord in heaven.. soon, all of you will be vindicated in His eyes… God Bless to all of you…

Comment by Myrna Austria

May 21, 2009 @ 4:58 pm

this guy should go back to her mother and ask forgiveness, and then ipakulong para di tularan.

Comment by foreverme

May 21, 2009 @ 5:17 pm

perfectly said, ms. maglipon.

u cld have had more readers if u uploaded the videos but then u declined. for that, i gave umy utmost respect.

Comment by kikay228

May 21, 2009 @ 7:01 pm

exactly my sentiments, ma’am…

this has been the subject of my discussions with my friends. katrina had asked for apology to the public, to dra. belo a couple of times. when in fact, biktima rin sha, pinaniwala sha nung lalaki. women, unfortunately, can be gullible when it comes to matters of the heart. so sad but so true. their intimate moments were private. same as with both the models. they did not know that a camera was sneakily recording their moments of passion. making love is, and should be, an act between two consenting individuals. it is not meant to be viewed by the whole world. what “that” man did to these women is disgusting. nevermind that he is a medical doctor, nevermind that he came from an affluent family and never mind that he attended Christian school. he should be punished, for him to feel remorse on what he had inflicted on these ladies. ladies, whose dignity and right to privacy were seriously violated.

Comment by jersey_gurl

May 21, 2009 @ 7:28 pm

Ms. Joan , very well said…
I hope that Mr. Kho will be punished for this..

Comment by ca_gandahan

May 21, 2009 @ 8:16 pm

@ Blonde-Skinny-B!tch >> Your name suits you well (read: moron, senseless and certainly a b!tch (which a think you are very proud of). I hope it won’t happen to you.

Comment by ca_gandahan

May 21, 2009 @ 8:20 pm

Erratum: (Which *I think you are proud of).

Comment by lourdes

May 21, 2009 @ 8:42 pm

very well said, i hope Katrina will survive what she’s going through. to Katrina, no matter what happens keep praying…

Comment by sweetfraulein

May 21, 2009 @ 9:57 pm

my officemates and i felt ‘violated’ about the video. kasi babae din kami.. having sex is a normal thing.. there are others out there who may be more sadistic. but that’s normal. but having it exposed to the public is sickening and revolting. his licence should be revoked.. if this maniac hayden was really seeing a phychiatrist.. then please.. take him to mental hospital where he belongs.. he’s sickening. a maniac. poor vicky belo and her kids.. they are part of hayden’s shame.. vicky must also be investigated. whether she likes it or not.. she’s got a hand from all these..

Comment by carmi

May 21, 2009 @ 10:14 pm

BE STRONG KATRINA.. GOD BLESS..

para sa family ni Katrina. please stop blaming her.. but instead support her.. para magkalakas sya ng loob para na rin sa lahat ng kababaihan na napapagsamantalahan ..

thank you Ms. Joan for this inpiring blog to support kathrina ..

Comment by wilyamthethird

May 21, 2009 @ 10:31 pm

ngayon at higit kailan pa man dapat ipakita ng GMA7 na may puso sila. Do not treat Katrina as a commodity but as a human being. Raise your voice for her, or be with her so she’d know that there are people who are willing to understand and listen.

Katrina made a mistake but that doesn’t mean she should be left on her own. GMA7, ang laban ni Katrina ay dapat laban niyo din…

Comment by Marky

May 21, 2009 @ 10:47 pm

Ill give you an HD (high distinction) of your bold view on this issue. You’re such a great writer. Cheers for sharing your thoughts.

Comment by Hahaybuhay

May 21, 2009 @ 11:03 pm

Not because Katrina has been crying in public people could already say she is a victim. Pls be reminded people that wala sanang video if hinde sya pumatol sa may GF. All mistakes has its own consequences. She just got hit with a very bad Karma for her wrong doings. Oo nga she is sorry for her mistake and she admited it only after she denied it for a thousand times. She only admited it nung naiipit na sya because there were evidences. I am against Doc Hayden for taking the video w/o the Katrina’s consent and I agree that sana mawalan cya ng license for what he did.
Katrina wasn’t forced to have sex with Doc Hayden. She did it voluntarily eventhough she know the guy has a GF and her boss. People are very one sided lalo na pag may nakitang tao na nagiiyak. Did you even thnk na baka hinde din c Doc Hayden ang nag labas ng video or c Doc Belo? Be open minded.

Comment by Gelai Fan

May 22, 2009 @ 12:18 am

I admit the fact that if I am the mother of Katrina manggagalaiti rin ako sa galit sa anak ko na kung bakit siya nagpakat@nga sa taong alam niyang may karelasyon na. It could be also hard for me na humarap sa mga tao nandahil sa matinding kahihiyan. Though of course at the same time as a mother and a woman hindi ako makakapayag na sirain ang dignidad ng kapamilya ko. Tutulong rin ako sa laban.

But as a viewer and a woman, I admit na nabalitaan ko rin ang issue na mali si Katrina but I don’t really believe na kailangan pa niyang umabot sa matinding humiliation na kung saan parang siyang namatayan ng dignidad. Hindi lang si Katrina ang biktima rito MILYON MILYON NANG MGA BABAE for sure ang nasangkot sa ganitong kaso. Ang pinagkaiba lang kasi hindi lahat artista kaya kung magiging big deal ito hindi lahat nakakarating sa taong bayan o buong mundo. Galit pa man din ako sa mga lalakeng mashadong mapagmalaki sa private matters na kung ano man ang ginawa nila sa mga babae kahit na hearsay o kwento lang nila. Para sa akin kasi sinisira pa rin nila ang dignidad ng mga babae o bawat tao my point it bakit nila kailangan gawin yun? Bakit kailangan may taong masaktan para may maipagmalaki sa pagkalalake nila?

Comment by shellphone

May 22, 2009 @ 1:46 am

Ganda Ms Joan. Goodluck Kat kaya mo yan!

Comment by kapusong220

May 22, 2009 @ 2:05 am

I totally agree with you, Ms. Maglipon. Your article was well said…

I agree, Katrina might have made a mistake, but a mistake out of love. And we must commend her not for her acts but for her humility in accepting her mistakes in PUBLIC.

Right now, what she needs is understanding and support, not only from her fans but I believe her FAMILY as well as the NETWORK where she works, should at least be beside her and support her even if it causes them shame. Getting mad and insult from people she loves is the last thing she needs, this won’t help her. It has been done, what can they do about it?

Ms. Maglipon, please let Katrina know that with what is going on, there are still people who pray for her peace of mind and wellness, like me….

Let the people who is responsible for bringing the videos in public rot in jail as well as in hell!

Comment by justasking

May 22, 2009 @ 3:49 am

if the rumors are indeed true that vicki belo is behind the distribution of these videos, could the absence of her and hayden’s video be the source of all her rage?

That all these women were videotaped except her?

just thinking out loud.

Comment by Blonde-Skinny-B!tch

May 22, 2009 @ 3:55 am

…this is getting ssso rediculous! who would believe Ms. Katy H. story? it’s too weak! totally!consideraing the man he had consentual encounter with in the “sex video” happens to have questionable sexuality! …Yep! it would catapult her to notoriety alright! …butt as “the woman who had sex with a gay man and LIVED to tell the tale!” Oops hahaha! :lol:

…in the meantime halfway across the globe at Cannes Film Festival 2009, a “sex video” of such dark and brutal subject matter, is getting mixed critics/audiences reviews! …about a prostitute “slaughtered” by society’s own religious ideals! …”brilliant” and compelling, uh-huh! Oh well! 8)

Comment by sexy_kapuso

May 22, 2009 @ 4:02 am

Thanks for sharing these with us Ms. Joan.
Saludo ako sa mga babaing lumalaban at hinaharap ang probblema.

Hope she will remain strong and laging may kasama para wag makapag-isip ng masama.

“Liberals are very broadminded: they are always willing to give careful consideration to both sides of the same side”

Comment by weetzi

May 22, 2009 @ 4:56 am

kasi naman mga girls, don’t agree to something like that. it’s not, by any means, a testament to your love for him! you’re not proving you don’t love/like the guy any less if you say no. there are plenty of ways to enjoy your intimacy without having to capture it on video/camera. trust me. lol!

Comment by tristanandiseult

May 22, 2009 @ 5:02 am

Katrina should not feel that she is a victim coz she did this to her self. She was trying to sneak around Vicky’s back to have sex with her boyfriend. The boss whom Katrina gets paid and fed.

Hay naku Katrina. MAgpapakumbaba ka nalang noh!/

I feel for Maricar Reyes but not for you! BECAUSE you are sooo malandi. Karma lang yan!

Maricar Reyes is Hayden Kho’s girlfriend, I symphatize for her but not Katrina!!

Comment by tristanandiseult

May 22, 2009 @ 5:13 am

Ang totoong victim dito is Maricar Reyes mainly because she was the legal girlfriend of Hayden.

Katrina? She was the other woman who was trying to go to bed with her Boss’ boyfriend

Comment by ai80

May 22, 2009 @ 7:07 am

i worked at a call center, where everything is so open. but when we watched the video, even my male officemates were disgusted.its like watching someone being slaughtered. we felt sad for Katrina, hope that her career and her self will bounce back after this. And as for Hayden Kho and the pigs who uploaded the videos, i hope that they be humbled and shamed for the rest of their lives. this a reminder to all guys out there, i know there are plenty of this kind of guys, you don’t own the world just because your handsome and rich.

Comment by summer

May 22, 2009 @ 7:44 am

Thank you to Miss Maglipon for sharing your insights…. This will EDUCATE people and OPEN their minds about the REAL ISSUE here…. hopefully all the people involved will LEARN from this and earn AGAIN the RESPECT they LOST… and to the OTHER WOMEN who were also VIOLATED…prayers to you too…. OUR SOCIETY shoul LEARN from all this…

And WHOEVER has to PAY should PAY…

Comment by Frances

May 22, 2009 @ 7:54 am

Despite my concurrence with the most part of this essay, I think that if you are going to talk about “universal moral language” then adhere to it and avoid double standards. If you say that Katrina Halili was abused by Hayden Kho and all the people involved in the leakage of the sex videos, then don’t conveniently diminish the extent of Katrina’s betrayal of Vicki Belo just to get your point across. Don’t pass it off as Katrina’s youthful “mistake” because “she fell in love”. Her being a “suffering wife” is by no means an atonement of her sins to Vicki Belo because Katrina made that choice to play with fire. We cannot judge if Katrina’s pain is more than that of Vicki’s. If you are going to talk about the moral issue about the scandalous videos, stick to your point and don’t talk about other sins at the same breath, as if they’re of the same degree.

Although your intentions were obviously well-meant, I think that you should be more consistent. If you are going to care about one woman, care for every single one of us. The message of your essay is further confusing the already blurring morality of our people.

Comment by issycoy

May 22, 2009 @ 8:03 am

very well said Madame….

but sad to say i will never sympathize with katrina.had she ever thought of the consequences of her action during the time that she was so lustful with hayden?had she ever thought of the pain that dra. belo felt during the time of betrayal?tears are not enough to say that she was sorry.she knew from the very beginning she was making the biggest mistake of her life and yet she did let her emotion over-ruled her capability to control her lust.saying sorry and crying in national tv is not enough to pay for the pain she had inflicted to the person who treated her as her own.
i am speaking based on my personal experience.i caught my husband having an affair with my bestfriend and the the grieving process is so painful as you wouldn’t expect someone so close to your heart can betray you like that.they both enjoyed the moment making out while the wife thought he was on a business trip but it end up a monkey business.
so this kind of species for me is trash,a garbage to the society who does nothing but ruin the reputation of the woman race.
for hayden the man with a brain of a boy…sad to say a pervert will always be a pervert….as what the saying goes the leopard will never change its spots.
belo let go of this guy.he only uses you for your money.if he truely loves you he will never go behind your back lusting and making out with another woman.
don’t give second chances because i didn’t.no matter what pleading nor begging he did.even the species.forgiveness takes time and forgetting will never happen.in the end they realized that the woman they betrayed and hurt stood out the winner… after all i still have the dignity to show myself to the public and say I am the first kinabit ka lang.

Comment by Freaked out pinay

May 22, 2009 @ 8:20 am

i agree that in the sense that whenever a scandal is released in public , the level of us being humans degrades us to being beasts ..

i couldn’t help but pity our society..

but what’s making this worse are the HYPOCRITES who now manages to make eloquent senate speeches..clamoring that Mr. Kho is a pervert and all.. well sorry to say Mr. senator…so do you..

kung kay pacquiao at spiderman ” having great power means great responsibility”
sa mga taong ito– having great power means having many mistresses.. and they are freaking proud of it it.. pareho lang yun. isa ka din sa mga taong bumababoy sa mga kababaihan …

si mr kho at least binata….

moving on…ang sad lang dito kailangan pa pala isang artista ang mababoy para umaksyon ang mga kina-uukulan..
ilang pinay na ba ang nabiktima nang mga scandal videos.. .. wala na lang nagawa ang mga ito kundi matago at malunod sa kahihiyan ..

na-alala nyo ma yung mga na-gang rape tapos ikinalatn ang video sa buong campus nila?

sana nga may pagbabagong mangyari pagkatapos nang scandal na to..

Comment by gorgeous_aleck

May 22, 2009 @ 8:39 am

personally, i did not watch the said videos. i felt sorry for miss katrina..

Comment by seth1981

May 22, 2009 @ 9:03 am

Very well said Miss Maglipon..That is exactly my thought..Because of our culture we tend to be hypocrite,prude and has the crab mentality..instead of crucifying Katrina let us just support her..it is a violation of her privacy and her dignity as a person and as a human being..and im hoping at this time that her mother network will support and give her projects cos she deserves a second chance.

Comment by expedition98

May 22, 2009 @ 9:21 am

Thank you so much Ms. Maglipon for taking the time to write this article……..well verse…… and we hope and pray that Kat will have strength to face all this…and to all women who got affected….sr-71

Comment by inmyopinion

May 22, 2009 @ 9:42 am

I am a woman and I’ve been a person who’s gender sensitive since I don’t know when. Let me just react on some lines in the post above.

Let me set things clear. I totally agree that Hayden Kho is a jerk or whatever people would want to call him and I agree that women has to be respected and no one (men or women) deserves to be treated and placed in shame like how the victims are suffering etc, etc etc so do not call me a supporter of Kho or whoever for I am not.

I just dont agree with the quoted lines above.

She was also not an insensitive girl. She knows for a fact that Hayden Kho is with Dra. Vicki Belo yet she had a relationship with him so she was insensitive, wasn’t she? She was insensitive to what Dra. Vicki Belo might feel had she discovered that they were having an affair (Kho and Halili). She’s a woman and falling in love will never be a valid excuse to be with someone who is committed, especially that Kho and Belo are public figures. She was insensitive, wasn’t she?

In my interview with her early this year, for YES! Magazine, she acknowledged that Vicki Belo was an issue in her relationship with Hayden. Vicki Belo is the (known in public) girlfriend of Kho so obviously, she will be an issue in their illicit relationship. Duh?

This is how she handled it: She played the suffering wife. Her man and Vicki could go out in the open and enjoy their partnership; she would stay in the condo and wait for when he could find time for her. She never imposed on his schedule; she waited, even if oftentimes she cried while doing so. If she’s in a healthy state of mind, she should have anticipated and she should have prepared herself for this knowing that she’s with a man who is very well known to be in a relationship. For crying out loud, there’s no way she will get any sympathy for doing those things. You agreed to be a mistress (for the lack of a better word) then you expect that you can face the world with that man? Whatever happened to common sense? Sorry but I believe from the bottom of my heart, you deserve all the pain you are claiming you felt that time.

By denying herself the pleasures of having long conversations with him, of eating out in restaurants with him, of attending showbiz events with him as escort, she believed she was already paying for her sins to Vicki. Sorry but you were not paying for your sins to Vicki Belo by doing those things that time. Using an analogy, if I steal a piece of apple from the seller and did not eat it does that mean I am paying for the sin of stealing the apple? Will that make me less of a thief? Come on!

Again, I believe that women (and men) should be respected. I believe that Hayden Kho already bought a one way ticket to hell this early but please, do not justify what Katrina Halili did as if she’s all good and clean because she also had her share of faults in here.

Comment by shervie

May 22, 2009 @ 10:12 am

so kailangan pala english din ang comment? ganun ba? bakit naman na delete pa yung comment ko na brutal yung sex video nila na napanood ko?

Comment by rouge09

May 22, 2009 @ 10:26 am

Comment by Hahaybuhay

May 21, 2009 @ 11:03 pm

“…wala sanang video if hinde sya pumatol sa may GF.”

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what? think again!

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thank you Jo-ann!

For Kat, fight!
GMA7 is behind you.

Comment by Are

May 22, 2009 @ 10:32 am

Thanks Joann for your thoughts on this issue.

As a woman, my heart goes to Katrina. The shame is there, but the no word from the mother must be unbearable.

Let us not judge her for the mistake she felt sorry about.

Let he without sin cast the first stone.

Comment by wilyam

May 22, 2009 @ 10:48 am

ang tanong ko lang diyan, ano ginagawa ng gma7 para proteksyunan ang interest ni katrina. hindi pwedeng maging bystander lang sila dito. talent nila si katrina. they have to take a stand or are they quiet because they are afraid of losing the income from Belo’s ads. Dito naman ako bilib sa abs-cbn kasi todo proteksyon sila sa mga talent nila – from Piolo to Failon, alam mo agad where they stand. Sabagay ambiguous nga sila sa usaping anabel at galvante kaya lumalakas ang loob nitong si anabel na magsalita ng kung ano-ano.

Comment by Janetbaby

May 22, 2009 @ 10:53 am

very well said ms. maglipon

kahit saan tignan halimaw si hayden… Katrina be strong kaya mo yan…

naiyak ako sa message mo ms. maglipon, more power….

Comment by movie fan

May 22, 2009 @ 10:57 am

naawa din ako kay katrina. pero interesado akong malaman kung ano ang masasabi ng handler niya– alam mo naman na sa showbiz, bad news is good news, katulad din ng para sa mga pulitikong pulpol.

kailangan matuto ang ibang artistang babae sa sitwasyon na ito– sa isang banda, gusto nila ang kasikatan and they will do anything para maging sikat (at pinagkakakitaan sila ng media dahil sa masamang ratings game na yan). pero pag nasalang sila sa kasikatan na di maganda, iiyak sila.

Comment by movie fan

May 22, 2009 @ 11:01 am

at ano nga pala ang masasabi ng CBCP dito? tahimik sila a. E ang mga censor? ang mga guardian ng morality? nasaan sila?

ito na talaga ang mundo natin. dahil sa bilis ng teknolohiya, naiiwan na ang aksyon para sa moralista.

Comment by movie fan

May 22, 2009 @ 11:04 am

by the way, kung talagang naawa ang PEP kay katrina, dapat di na rin kayo sumusulat ng anything on the matter. ganun din yun e. di ninyo nga ipinakita ang video (pero nakita na namin sa ibang site) nagsulat naman kayo ng madami.

may titillating nga ang ginagawa ninyo na sulat lang– you keep the fertile imagination of readers burning.

Comment by sylvester

May 22, 2009 @ 11:04 am


i feel sorry for katrina... sana matapos na to

Comment by marian

May 22, 2009 @ 11:41 am

Hi Kat! just remain strong as u are,, and if ok, lipat kn s Channel2, i think pnbyaan k ng mother network m, wl clang ibngay n suporta s u, if talent k ng channel2, nd lalala ng gnyan ang issue n yn… Just Pray!

Comment by Haythen

May 22, 2009 @ 12:59 pm

Nasan na ang suporta ng GMA-7, buti pa yung kay Ted Failon full support ang ABS e itongnagyayari kay Katrina ano ang suporta nila. Kasimagaling lang sila pag may makukuha sila sa tao pero sa oras ng kagipitan walang suporta makukuha sa mga KAPUSO daw. Asan ang PUSO nyo ngayon? Puro kayo ratings na pina-fabircate nyo lang naman.

Comment by amazingmaxx

May 22, 2009 @ 1:42 pm

couldnt agree more!

lets hope justice is served; whoever uploaded this video on the net must be prosecuted and brought to justice!

hayden, speak at the right time and please choose ur words wisely… u had cause so much damage already, dont add anything more! just show us that u r truly remorseful and willing to pay the prize.

katrina, be strong… u r not alone in ur fight!

Comment by Sweety

May 22, 2009 @ 1:48 pm

to katrina halili lakasan mo loob mo kya mo yan…my karma din na dadating sa mga taong nag upload ng video..at lalo na jan kay hayden kho na yan! tinuringan syang proffesional tapos ganyan xa….dapat lng na matanggalan xa ng lisensya ng maturuan xa ng leksyon…magbold star n lng sya!!! marami sumosuporta sau! kya lumaban ka ok…go girl! kya mo yan…god bless…

Comment by busybaby

May 22, 2009 @ 1:57 pm

HU ARE we to judge? it was writte in the bible that hu has not committed a sin can cast a stone to magdalene and it holds true to the situation..

i cried because i am a mother, my child is only 7 but i am too protective of her, even the smallest insects that bit her, i killed… so i am really soory for what happened to her..

she is young, but her life is shattered… i pray that she can recover. i hope her mom wud forgive her and be the one to protect her in her most troubled times.

thnx ms joan i am enlightened by this article… we should be humane, and we should not be judgmental, coz we will never know if it will happen to us, o our family or friends.

katrina many people symphatizes with you… be strong and have faith in God

Comment by blinktubey

May 22, 2009 @ 2:39 pm

kelangan ba magcomment dito puro positive lahat? well, na delete ang comment ko..i wonder why… siguro dahil sinabi ko na one sided ang article ni ms. maglipon..masyadong feminist…

Comment by mai

May 22, 2009 @ 2:41 pm

more than katrina, i pity the other actress whose face was shown and in a well lighted room

Comment by HAZE

May 22, 2009 @ 2:43 pm

ms. joan, in my personal point of view, wala pong victim dyan s sex video na yan. yah i am i woman too, and i will feel bad and violated if the same case would happen to me. pero how could that possibly happen to me if i know that i am doing the right thing. paano po nakakaawa c ms, katrina if the very fact pa lang po na pumasok cia in a relationship wid mr. kho who was with ms. belo then, e kasalanan na nia yon. alam na niang mali pinasukan nia pa. does she realized the hurt she cause the other lady at that time; how she violated the other’s right to be happy with his man and not become also the topic of showbiz industry for some time. ang alam lang po ni katrina at this point is the pain she is feeling right now. what about the pain she caused ms. belo? inalam nia ba un before cia nakapagflirt kay kho?
yah malaki ang kasalanan ni mr. kho. pero di po ba tayong mga babae kahit gaano tayo pilitin ng mga lalake, if we know what is right, if we respect others and ourselves, if we were brought up wid fear of God, we won’t indulge in sexual acts esp. pag alam natin na may naaapakan na tayo.
katrina decided to entertain the pleasures she wanted, bakit po ngaun na naniningil na ang tadhana wid her worldly deeds, iyak cia ng iyak sa tv, humihingi ng saklolo kung kanikanino. sana inisip nia muna yan before cia enjoy na enjoy sumayaw sa video.
how can u make me believe that she didn’t know all the videos. it is so easy to say na hindi nia alam. paniniwalaan ko ba cia if all the while she fooled the public wid regard to her relationship wid kho.
all i see now is that she is doing this ngaun coz first nawawalan na cia ng projects. she wants to give the full blame to kho. di ba ginusto nia rin yan. when she was enjoying nagpatulong ba cia sa mga senador?
sorry ms. katrina pero u deserve the pain ur experiencing. pain begets pain. nakasakit ka ng loob kaya ngaun ikaw and nasasaktan. u destroyed a relationship and when everything falls back unto u hindi mo matanggap.
ms. katrina, why not learn to face this fight in a very mature manner. accept ur mistakes, face them in a manner na di ka nagpapakaawa in public. bumangon ka in a manner na di mo kailangan manghila ng makakasama mo dyan sa ibaba.
thank u and sorry, personal point of view lang po

Comment by Dolly

May 22, 2009 @ 2:50 pm

I agree with u Ms. Editor in Chief…

Kho should be responsible of his actions. I do not believe that he is the real man who uploaded this online of course because it is his reputation also ruins here. But because he did not keep safe of the files this is what he gets. I did not see the videos yet it seems nababoy na c Kat for some people na humusga immediately eh. I am a woman and I felt for her.

I hope she has shoulder to cry on.

Comment by len

May 22, 2009 @ 3:10 pm

I appreciate your value and respect of Katrina and other girls involved in the videos. I’m a mother & a wife and I got very concerned and afraid of the kind of society my daughter is growing up in. Just a thought though (and this is not to judge anyone), I don’t think what Hayden did to those women is in any way form of love making. If he truly loved any one of them he wouldn’t hide taking the videos while they were having sex. It would be something he would ask of them out of respect. At the end of the day let this be a lesson to young women out there not to do something that they’re not sure they can protect themselves with the consequences.

Comment by tristanandiseult

May 22, 2009 @ 3:47 pm

I dont get your point Ms. Maglipon! Katrina is not a victim. She was well aware of what she was doing in the first place, sneaking behind Belo’s back!

I feel sad about Maricar Reyes but not for Katrina!

Comment by ems

May 22, 2009 @ 4:51 pm

of course GMA will not do anything to support Kat, Vicky Belo’s late adoptive father is one of the pioneers of the lawfirm that the Gozons belong to….

Comment by Chic18

May 22, 2009 @ 6:07 pm

hay..what else can we say.. nasabi na lahat.. i just hope everything will fall in its place..with all the rumors goin around, i know huhupa din to..alam nyo naman sa society natin mabilis mapagusapan but then after, mabilis rin mawala…i think after ko mapanood yung video, one lesson that I’ve learned as in tumatak sakin is if you will go out w/ som1, it’s really important to know him well..like what happened with katrina, nagkamali sya ng pinatulan..and i pity her..for sure naman for those people whose doin it its the same way or at least malapit sa ganun, but then its so happen na nakita ng public, and even yung ibang artista dyan we know naman na may mga ganyang moment din even ordinary people, kya talagang nagkataon lang na si katrina ay minalas at sa kanya napunta ang moment… well, i pity more with her family..kasi if sakin mangyari yan di ko matatangap na makita ng mom ko or even my siblings!!! hay… just pray katrina you can surpass all these things in time..God Bless…

Comment by maria ney poculan

May 22, 2009 @ 6:53 pm

comment by ney

sana d titigil ang suporta ng GMA kay Katrina.

Comment by moviefandin

May 22, 2009 @ 7:50 pm

hayden should be punished for all of this mess.who in his right mind would distribute copies of intimate videos. doon pa lang e pambabastos na. hayden and katrina may be consenting adults pero para ikalat pa ni hayden yun is too much. saying sorry will not take this all away. this guy is sick!

Comment by silent_observer

May 22, 2009 @ 8:18 pm

i emphatize & sympathize with Katrina. It is true that she committed a mistake by falling in love with a guy who is committed. But can you blame a young girl who is so in love? I am not saying that what Katrina did is right. What I am trying to point out is that Katrina already felt & have said sorry a lot of times for falling in love with the wrong guy.

Katrina is the victim here. She doesn’t deserve to be humiliated. Let us support her!!!

Comment by geeann

May 22, 2009 @ 8:58 pm

My Hats Off to Ms. Maglipon.

TO THE BOARD OF MEDICINE, HAYDEN KHO IS A COMPLETE DISGRACE TO THE SOCIETY. ONE GOODLOOKING BUT VERY SICK MAN.

TO DR. V. BELO, YOU HAVE A DAUGHTER. PROTECT YOUR NAME, YOUR REPUTATION, THE EMPIRE YOUE BUILD ALL THESE YEARS. WERE SURE SOMEDAY SOON THERE WILL BE A VIKKI BELO-HAYDEN KHO SEX SCANDAL. WOULD YOU WAIT FOR THAT? WAKE UP!

Comment by ogloveco

May 22, 2009 @ 9:10 pm

To those who are critical of Katrina because of the perceived “villain” role she played in the love story between Vicky Belo and Hayden Kho, is it hard to accept and understand that she already admitted her fault many times and felt remorseful about it? Don’t you think Vicky Belo is also part of Kho getting morally corrupt by lavishing him with luxuries just to keep him?

I believe it was never Ms. Maglipon’s intention to ignore the side of other victims. What moved her to give emphasis on Katrina’s case is because it was only Katrina who made the bold move to come out to expose the indignities she suffered from this scandal. How would the public sympathize with Maricar Reyes if she is so scared or ashamed to face the consequences of a showdown just in case?

Comment by palengkera

May 22, 2009 @ 9:22 pm

Thank you, Joann for your insightful article.

Pambababoy is indeed what Hayden did to Katrina and the other women, including Dr. Belo, not because these women are uniwlling participants but because he victimized them with his manipulations.

Comment by palengkera

May 22, 2009 @ 9:25 pm

I’m amazed by the judgemental and self-righteous comments on this article.

Cast the first stone…

Comment by educatedguesser

May 22, 2009 @ 9:31 pm

I believe Katrina is a victim because she did not know or consent to making or release of the video.

But what about the video Fantasie that she agreed to do? Did she not objectify women and herself with that too?

I can’t believe Gabriela is supporting her because her sexy videos and photos do not help the plight of women. Will she clean up her act after this?

Comment by inmyopinion

May 23, 2009 @ 4:32 am

So dapat pala tagalog ang comment?

O sige. Kung gagamitin natin ang katwiran (more on palusot) na whoever committed no sin cast the first stone eh di sana naman pala lahat ng krimen balewala lang. Kasi kahit naman sino na nagkasala at nakulong pwede naman nila din sabihin yan eh. Yan ang problema sa mga tao, para lang mabigyang katwiran ang mali ay kahit ang pinaka-lame na excuse gagamitin.

Wala akong sinasabing tama ang nangyari sa kanya pero kung di sya pumatol sa taong committed na, hindi mangyayari yon sa kanya. Wala kasing acceptable na reason para pumayag ang babae na maging kabit. If feeling sorry is enough para ma-justify yon eh di sana lahat ng kabit ay wala din kasalanan because at one point for sure they feel sorry din sa ginagawa nila.

Sana ay wag naman nating bigyang katwiran ang bagay na mali.

At kay Katrina, tama na ang kaka-iyak mo dahil alam mo na ikaw din ang naglagay sa sarili mo sa sitwasyon na yan.

Comment by MyBadName

May 23, 2009 @ 10:29 am

thanks ms. maglipon for this wonderful blog. for sure it will enlightens everybody. totoo ang sinasabi nila dito na nakakaiyak.

we, who believe in a humane society condemned this voyeurism acts. no one is perfect here. so let us not judge one another.

katrina might projected to the viewing public as a sexy star but we still adore her for being so nice. iba sya sa lahat ng mga artista. hindi plastic. fact is, we, her loyal fans adores her more now. nakita namin kung paano nya nilabanan ang lahat. we simply admire her guts for fighting.

bakit nga ba tayo umiibig pa na kahit alam nating mali ay ginagawa pa rin natin? pero di tayo pwedeng manghusga dahil tayo man din ay nagkakamali. baka nga higit pa sa nagawa ni katrina.

through this blog, we would like to extend our full supports to ms. katrina halili. rest assured that we will bring the fight to the street if she will not be given fair justice.

thank you and more power to PEP!

Comment by paskydoodles

May 23, 2009 @ 11:12 am

oh, well may mga ibang tao dito kung makapanghusga eh akala mo holier-than-thou sila… si katrina nagsisisi na sa kanyang mga pagkakamali e niyuyurakan pa, parang kulang pa ang paghingi ng tawad dapat pa bang ipako siya sa krus? si hayden?? ang katwiran ng pagvideo ng sexcapades e for “memories” daw ha??? gawain ba ito ng matinong pagiisip? ok kung “for your eyes only” not for everyone to see!!! to ms. joan i totally agree with what you have written… kudos!

Comment by ogloveco

May 23, 2009 @ 12:51 pm

No matter what Katrina’s detractors say, the case against Kho has been filed. Kung merong nakikisawsaw, politico man, artista or just the plain public, it is everybody’s prerogative being in a free country. At this point, being nasty at her despite her contrition is uncalled for. We may not realize what and how it feels to be in such situation until the same thing happens to us.

The upshot of the saying “what goes around comes around” has already hit Katrina but it’s heartening to note that she recognized the folly of the relationship she had entered into and is ready to face the consequence whatever it may cost her.

Comment by Denisa Lozada

May 23, 2009 @ 12:56 pm

Hayden Kho has apologized and it’s about time.
Guys like him should have their heads checked.
But please, can people do something about Katherine Luna’s ex who has owned up to spreading private videos of her and proudly admits it as just an act of vengeance for the actress’ break up with him.
Here for all to see and hear is this guy’s unapologetic and really shallow excuse for his actions in spreading private videos of Ms. Luna.

http://www.gmanews.tv/largevideo/related/41730/Showbiz-Central-Katherine-Luna-being-blackmailed-by-ex-boyfriend

Comment by regalbaby

May 23, 2009 @ 4:02 pm

sayang, di ko nakita ang video eh. Search ako sa youtube pero wala na deleted na. Si Hayden tlaga ang may kasalanan nito eh. Kasi kung bakit pinakita pa nya sa mga friend nya ang video. For what? At un mga friend din ni Hayden na walang puso. Hay matakot kayo sa karma.

Comment by HAZE

May 23, 2009 @ 4:50 pm

korak! kat stop crying already infront of nat’l television. naku ginusto mo nga yan di ba. mga senators, officials, women’s organizations, please lang po wag nio na patulan paeffect of ms. halili.
i am also a sinner. pero i usually don’t blame anyone sa mga kasalanan which i chose to do.
she is humiliated kamo? the very fact she appears on tv and film almost naked is very humiliating na. ano pa b natitira?
remember we are the ones responsible for the path we choose to take. sinakyan mo ung jeep tapos ngaun sinisisi mo yung driver. why pinilit kaba niang sumakay? no. it was ur own free will.
tapos painterview pa c ms. halili sa tv na di cia uurong and the support of the public gives her strength to fight back. paano kaya dami nagpapaloko sa soap opera nia.
the only victim there is vicky belo, not halili.
after mo magpakasaya and manakit u cry na ur humiliated. the…….
pardon me pero medyo ata naaalis tayo dun sa main source of reason why all these things started, that is, PUMATOL C MS. KATRINA TO A PERSON WHO IS ALREADY COMMITED. SO WHATEVER CONSEQUENCES THAT GOES WITH IT, HARAPIN NIA. THE NERVE, ANG LAKAS NG LOOB NIANG MAGCOMPLAIN SA TV. KUNG DI KA BA NAMAN PUMATOL AT GINUSTONG MAGING NO. 2 DI SANA WALANG SEX VIDEOS NGAUN.
dapat nga cguro magalit sa yo mom mo. i believe ur one of her biggest frustrations. sana naman give respect to ur family. in terms of clothing pa lang naku thumbs down na.

Comment by castofkeith

May 23, 2009 @ 5:59 pm

i luv it!!!!!!
fabulously written!!!

superbly brilliant!!!

moreeeeeeeee, Ms. Maglipon….

Comment by expat1228

May 23, 2009 @ 7:37 pm

^^ the issue here is yung pagvvideo ni dr. kho at yung pag upload ng video sa internet.. it not about the sex nor the affair.

it’s not about condoning what she did. obviously, it was wrong. bad choice. wrong decision. and i think she already learned that the hard way.. and i think she heard enough need-to-hear words from her friends and family about her past relationship with dr. kho.

down na down na yung tao.. sana lang dun sa mga sumisisi pa kay Katrina.. huwag nang magpaka-upright na parang walang nagawang mali sa buhay..

any fool can know.. but it takes someone who has a heart to understand..

Comment by kulet solis

May 23, 2009 @ 10:17 pm

K-A-R-M-A what goes around,comes around!!!
Whatever katrina is suffering now,its the fruit of all her actions in the past!
Bong Revilla kikisawsaw..kala mo sinong magaling..E madami din skeleton sa closet! nakupo!

Comment by chic

May 23, 2009 @ 10:35 pm

BLESSINGS!!! Thank you Ms Jo Ann for your views. This should serve as a lesson to everybody. I believe there is no victim here. I believe nobody has the right to judge anybody. We are all ONE. No blame, no reasoning, no argument, just love and understanding. To Katrina be brave, pray and be mindful of your every actions. That sex video does not diminish your very person girl.Believe that the DIVINE BEING is in you and nobody can ever destroy you. Learn your lesson though. To Hayden may you find in your heart the real meaning of LOVE so you will not look around.Lets forgive one another. PEACE.

Comment by live

May 23, 2009 @ 11:49 pm

thanks ms joan for shedding some light on us for this issue…enlightening din talaga.
tama ka din bakit super nakakabingi ang silence ng GMA sa issue ni katrina o ang artist center ba un o starstruck?bakeeeeeet?matapos niong pagkakitaan si kat ngaun ganun lang na need nia kau?sobra naman,konting pagbalik nman din.
buti pa ang PEP,nagsalita tru ms joan—mabuhay ang PEP!

Comment by muryot

May 24, 2009 @ 1:08 am

tama si wilyam…nasaan ang GMA?buti pa si ms. maglipon may stand sa said scandal…bat naman GMA wala kau masabi.mga babae sa abs nagbibigay ng statement kau na kapuso ni katrina wala?ibig sabihin pala katrina is not that big star as you have been claiming(note FHM’s sexiest twice pa ha) to warrant a respoectable attention…joey de leon nasaan ka na and ur big old mouth?

Comment by chizmoza

May 24, 2009 @ 3:17 am

May point naman si Ms. Maglipon. Ganito lang yan eh:
1) Mali si Katrina kasi pumatol sya kay Hayden, alam naman nya na may gf yng tao – Kasi alam naman nya dapat at hindi.
2) Maling mali naman si Hayden na kuhanan ng video na walang consent si Katrina, tapos ang masama dun nakalabas sa public.
Bottom line is hindi naman yng pagkakamali ni kat ang pinag uusapan eh, yng ginawa sa kanya ni Hayden. Pwede natin cguro sabihin na karma ito kay Katrina. Ang point ngayon eh si Katrina at marami pang ibang babae ang biktima.

Comment by Kaili

May 24, 2009 @ 7:42 am

Unfortunately Katrina used the wrong words. She was trying to say na she was binababoy sa simula pa lang? What does she mean by that? Obviously she appeared to me like she is using the present situation to gain public sympathy. Oo nakakaawa sya pero how about careless whisper na aware na aware sya and was indeed careless? For me, sapat na yun para hindi ako masyadong maawa sa kanya. Sa pamilya nya oO at doon sa ibang involve sa sex scandal na naka relasyon naman ni Hayden na walang sabit talaga. Pero Katrina? sorry. Madali akong maawa pero I use my judgment wisely. She is but not so worth my pity because she is a relationship wrecker in the first place. It’s good na nagsisisi na sya pero please lang wag na ulit nya naman sanang e refresh ang memory ng audience sa mga kapalastikan at denials nya nuon. Paulit ulit syang humingi ng sorry sa mga tao dahil artista nga sya pero pauli ulit kaya syang humingi ng sorry kay Vicky? Dba pa tawa tawa pa sya nuong mga denial days nya? …. and oh yes, hayden is sick. He really is. However, Hayden is not lone to be blame on Katrina-Hayden scandal. You know why Katrina, you know very well sa mga contribution mo sa kasalanan nyong dalawa. You may not need my sympathy Katrina pero as a babae din na may karelasyon, it’s hard for me to pity you to the fullest extent! You don’t deserve it. I know you are troubled and all but please lang, stay sincere. Wag maki ride-on at gamitin ang sitwasyon para kaawaan ka ng husto. I saw you SNN interview. Yung pilit kang umiyak at nakatutok pa ang mga mata mo sa camera. Days before that, you were so believable and sincere enough that I feel your sorrow. Pero in that SNN inteview, namulat ako. You appeared trying so hard to win back peoples trust on you. Desperately! It takes more than awa to weigh things out Katrina. Mind over matter specifically. Just face the consequences of your actions Katrina and let there be sincere remorse on your part as well. Karma is one thing that makes the world fair! Face it, learn from it and you should be fine.

Comment by hidden23

May 24, 2009 @ 8:57 am

Jo-ann,
Thank you so much for writing this. Your blog made me cry. Bilang babae na may kapatid na babae, may ina, may kaibigang babae, at mga kamag-anak na mga babae. Ang nangyari kay Katrina ay pwedeng mangyari sa ating lahat hindi ba? That’s why nakikisimpatya tayo sa kanya at naiintindihan natin ang pinagdadaanan niya. Because we know its real at nangyari na ito nang paulit ulit sa marami pang babae. Kudos to you! I hope marami ka pang isulat sa blog mo. Salamat!

Comment by hidden23

May 24, 2009 @ 9:06 am

Frances,

Sigurado namang pinagsisihan na at natutunan na ni Katrina ang lesson ng pagpatol sa isang lalaking may sabit at pag betray kay Belo. Mali nga iyon. But then, lahat naman nagkakamali. Ang point naman ni Ms Maglipon i think, ay hindi natin problema iyon. Problema nila iyon, desisyun nila ang ginawa nila. At sa totoo lang, keber ko kung nagkabitan sila? Ang pinakanakakasukang nangyari dito, ay ang pag video nang walang pahintulot ni Katrina at ng iba pang mga babae nakaulayaw ni Kho. At ang paglabas nito sa net. Ito ang tinutuligsa natin.

Ang ibig mo bang sabihin, porke, pumatol si Katrina, hindi na siya karapat-dapat magreklamo? Hindi ba parang ganito lang yan: may isang prostitute na niraped, nagdemanda siya at ang sinabi sa kanya: wala kang karapatng magreklamo ng rape kasi prostitute ka??

I will be very dissapointed kung ang sasabihin mo ay oo, wala silang karapatang magreklamo at magdemanda.

Sa tingin ko, hindi lang “malinis” na babae ang may karapatang sumigaw ng foul pag inaabuso sila. Maski ang iniisip nating “marurumi at imoral na babae” ay may karapatan din. Lalo na at hindi nila gusto ang ginawa sa kanila.

Comment by tinkerbell22

May 24, 2009 @ 9:41 am

JOAN, pwede ba huwag naman sanang laging nasa TAAS tong blog mo. kasi hindi ko agad napansin na may bago ng blog si Giselle dahil blog mo lagi nasa itaas.. please lang.

Comment by Rose

May 24, 2009 @ 2:05 pm

Hayden Kho’s name title is not Doctor of Medicine anymore but Macho Dancer. Though it’s still gonna be Hayden Kho,MD

Comment by hidden23

May 24, 2009 @ 9:56 pm

May ilan pa rin dito na ipinagkakamali ang issue sa pagkabit ni Katrina kay Hayden kaya hindi siya dapat kaawaan (gosh! masyado tayong moralista ha). Tapos na yun. Hindi na iyon ang issue. Ibang issue na itong sex scandal. At dito sa issue na ito, whether you like it or not, victim si Katrina. Naabuso ang karapatan at dignidad niya. Tulad ni Maricar at iba pa. Is Katrina a hero? Im sure naman hindi niya rin gusto iyon. So hindi siya hero. Babae lang po siya. Na sumisigaw ng katarungan! Babae lang po siya na binigyan ng mukha at naging boses ang libo-libo pang mga babae na tulad niya ay nakunan din ng mga video at nailagay sa net ng iba’t ibang mga predators (Dumaguete scandal, LaSalle scandal, Ateneo, UP, Laguna scandal etc).

Comment by Blonde-Skinny-B!tch

May 24, 2009 @ 10:01 pm

…what’s “all-the-rage” in Pinoy tinsel town? …what BSB ™? …Well, it’s “Sexy Dancing with sultry Katrina Halili” Instructional Video! …winner! ;)

…for a mere cheap 100 pesos, you’ll learn unadulterated sexy moves hhhHot enough to steal your gggurlfren’s man! uh-huh! Oops! …satisfaction guaranteed it works Hell yeah! …HOW? …he might even “hayden” video record it! blink hahaha :lol:

…I don’t think your government institution is in a position to sanctioning “morality”, it will violate individual 18 years or over Amendment Rights! …it’s the role of the Church! …butt you didn’t hear anything from them yet, didya? Oh well whatever! ;)

…in this YouTube/Facebook/Twitter era, “sex videos” are ssso common! …it’s the “generation gap” I guess! ;)

Comment by Blonde-Skinny-B!tch

May 24, 2009 @ 10:24 pm

…btw to all the veterans, men, women and gay “in-duty” all over the world! …”Happy Memorial Day” …thanks for protecting our freedom! uh-huh! 8)

Comment by brod potente

May 25, 2009 @ 12:47 am

ms. maglipon kindly read the blog of gabinete kahit saang anggulo tingnan he is highlighting the wrongdoings of ms. halili. kung hindi lumandi si halili wala sanang video at bakit daw hindi pinapansin ang mga videos ni ms. volks, mahal, ms luna etc. your readers are intelligent enough to spot the difference of which videos to condemn. everyone knows the image of katrina but that doesn’t mean na wala na siyang karapatang magsabi na na-violate siya or paano yung ibang babae na hindi kasing sikat ni katrina. ang sana sinabi na lang ni gabinete na maaring in away, nagamit ni katrina ang issue para umani ng sympathy na yun nga ang nangyari. pakssabi lang na wag siyang makipag argue sa readers, pinupuri namin siya sa mga bnlogs niya ang kaso mukhang nabayaran at pinagtatanggol ang side ni belo at hayden. check his blog and the readers comments.

Comment by LaBuYoXVIII

May 25, 2009 @ 3:08 pm

I don’t get what most of the people here are saying. Are we saying that since Katrina snuck behind Vicki Belo’s back, she got what she deserved? Yes, what she did was wrong, but by us condemning Katrina because of her “loose morals” as other people would say it, would that solve the problem that is Hayden Kho?

So, because Katrina placed herself in this situation, does this mean that her family shouldn’t also be spared by all this humiliation? Don’t you think that she has had enough with all the scorn she received when she admitted her short-lived romance with Hayden Kho?

I have never seen any of the videos of Katrina, or Maricar, or the Brazilian girl for that matter. How are we any different from Hayden Kho if we watch these videos and pass it on to others? After watching the video, what’s next? Are we actually above reproach and have better morals than Katrina to condemn her? Please.

We all have sisters, mothers, aunts, and friends who are also WOMEN. If we continue “patronizing” these videos, think of how you’d feel if something like this happened to somebody you know and care for.

Comment by tinapay

May 25, 2009 @ 4:38 pm

very well said ms. jo-ann! the most intelligent and compelling blog i’ve ever read.

napaka-timely ang blog na ito ms.maglipon.most of the people who have heard and seen the video only see the “lewdnes” on it.but they failed to see the other side.the video did hurt a young woman who fell in love to a wrong, lunatic man.

u made us perceive the whole thing differently. i guess it’s really high time to fight for the rights of women.

to katrina, just be strong.you’re not the only person who slept with a man.the only difference is that yours was made in public.Just pray that you’ll get through all of this.continue your fight.the culprits should be lOCKED IN JAIL FOREVER!

Comment by Den

May 26, 2009 @ 2:37 am

Katrina did wrong by having sex outside the context of marriage. I disagree though with Dr. Belo when she said the videos should teach women not to snatch another woman’s boyfriend. She totally missed the point and sounded very bitter. Overall however, taking videos of very intimate moments covertly are wrong in so many levels. Katrina trusted and loved him. Hayden trivialized this feeling toward him and made her a part of his ‘collection.’ He is one sick, perverted, son-of-a-you-know-what! I can only imagine how he was brought up. I suggest UST start reviewing their entrance requirements for their MD program.

Comment by inmyopinion

May 26, 2009 @ 4:29 am

Well, wala na yata talagang magagawa sa mga taong sadyang makitid ang pag-iisip. Ang pagbibigay pala ng opinion ay pagmamalinis. Come on. Grow up.

Nung ang video pa lang na sumasayaw sila ni Hayden ang lumabas, naaalala ko nagpa-interview pa sya sa tv at ang sabi pinupuri pa daw sya ng mga tao dahil magaling daw pala sya sumayaw. Ang laswa din ng video na yon pero hindi man lang sya nahiya? Di nya naisip na binababoy sya ng mga taong nanonood ng video na yon?

Sana maisip natin na hindi lahat ng umiiyak ay biktima. Yun ibang babae na nasa video na hindi umiiyak at nagpapa-interview sa press ibig sabihin ba hindi sila biktima.

Kung ang issue pala ay ang pag upload sa internet ng videos at hindi yun video or yun affair, bakit si Hayden Kho ang binabatikos? Napatunayan na bang sya ang nag upload?

Kung sapat na pala ang pagsasabi ng sorry at paggawa ng public apologies para maayos ang isang gusot, ginawa na din yon ni Hayden Kho so dapat pala okay na yon?

Ang hindi kasi naiisip ng mga tao, ang ginagawa natin, laging may balik sa atin. In Katrina Halili’s case, ito ang nangyari. Masakit kung masakit pero kung di sya pumasok sa relasyon na yon, wala syang video. Hindi sya aatungal in public at nagpapaawa. In short, too bad. Karma’s such a bitch.

Sana din ang Senado wag nang makisakay. Napakadami pang problemang dapat unahin. Kung ang lahat ng Pilipino kumakain ng 3 beses sa isang araw, walang Pilipinong walang trabaho at kung wala na ang korupsyon sa Pilipinas saka na sila makisakay sa issue na to.

Hindi dahil sa artista ang involved, makikisawsaw na. Ang nagagawa nga naman ng ambisyong pampulitika.

Katrina Halili, sana ay mabasa mo to. Sana ay matuto ka na ng leksyon. Wag kang papatol sa may karelasyon na. Isipin mo lagi ang karma. Hindi dahilan na na-in love ka kaya mo gagawin ang bagay na mali.

Comment by Frances

May 26, 2009 @ 4:52 am

Hidden23,

If you read my comment again, I DIDN’T imply that Katrina, being a sinner herself, can NOT cry foul after what subsequently happened to her.

Ang sa akin lang, kung magiging moralista at responsableng mamamahayag, ilahad ng tama ang kunteksto ng mga kaganapan para hindi malihis ang atensyon ng mga mambabasa.

Dahil sa pamamaraan ng panunulat ni Gng. Maglipon, nabigyan niya ng mabigat na simpatiya ang isang panig: ang kay Katrina Halili. Imbes sana na tumutok tayo sa mas importanteng mensahe ni Gng. Maglipon: ang tuligsahin ang pagkalat ng mga iskandalosong videos at ang ipokritong reaksyon ng lipunan.

Comment by judeof law

May 26, 2009 @ 8:27 pm

Its like a circus now,all the clowns are trying hard to ride in a bicycle,controversy from another contraversy,sex selling like hot potato,the people involve here are matured enough whats right or wrong for them,in the first place they are willing women wanted to sleep with this man but not knowing they are videod and if thats the case the intimate moment that should leave behind the close door is spreadng like virus and there you go invasion of privacy are are at stake now,and talking of morality here from the people who buy pirated cd out of curiousity,the people who watched it time and again,the people involve in the video,and media reporting it through the night and day wheres the morality here,my sibblings,to the youth,to the kids where the sense of responsibility for them no good news now days are people loose their sense good faith.We see ourselves in the mirror.Is it only the reflection of what really true pictures goons,guns,money,sex are all over the street are there safe place in our land to live?

Comment by inmyopinion

May 27, 2009 @ 2:14 am

Ang isang sinasabi ng karamihan ay hindi daw si Katrina ang issue. Hindi ang kasalanang nagawa nya. Oo hindi nga yon ang main issue kasi si Katrina ang umiiyak at lumalabas na kaawa-awa. Sana lang maisip ng mga tao na ang mga bagay ay laging may dahilan kung bakit nangyayari. Hindi naman nangyari ang lahat ng ito out of the blue.

Sabihin na nating masama si Hayden Kho dahil kumukuha sya ng video ng di alam ng mga kasama nya pero naisip ba natin kung bakit si Katrina lang ang umiiyak sa publiko. Ang model na isang may video rin na mas malaswa at mas maliwanag ang video ay hindi nagpapa-awa kagaya nya? Ang babae nga na yon napaka-wholesome ng image. Hindi ko ibig sabihin na dahil sexy starlet si Katrina wala na syang karapatang umiyak. Ang sinasabi ko ay bakit sya lang ang pinaka-nagpapasikat sa issue na ito? Sa tingin ko kasi ay pinipilit nyang umiyak para sya ang lumabas na nakaka-awa at malihis tayong lahat sa mga bagay na may kinalaman sa issue.

Kung di sya pumatol sa may karelasyon na, wala syang video. Ito ay base sa balita na ang sa modelo na video ay dati pa kinuha, wala pa sa showbiz si Hayden Kho. Assuming naman na ang video kasama ang modelo ay kinuhaan ng si Belo at si Kho na, at least may delikadesa sya na hindi ngumawa sa publiko para lang kaawaan sya. Kasi baka alam nya na may kasalanan din sya kung bakit nangyari yon sa kanya.

Sabi nga sa Meteor Garden, kung lahat nadadaan sa sorry, wala na sanang parak. Sorry Katrina Halili pero ka-plastikan ang pag-iyak mo sa tv. Magkaroon ka naman sana ng konting delikadeza.

Comment by anniemae

May 27, 2009 @ 5:37 am

i like yur blog ms.joan.when i watched the vedio im really mad and super galit na galit to hayden kho grabe.gusto ko syang e balibag patiwarik lol to katrina go girl ..god is in your side. like mary magdalene when she asked forgiveness.at least nag sisi ka yon ang mahala wag na wag mo nang ulitin ulit.pls fight for your right and for other victim. ms joan thanks for your blog and god bless you.MABUHAY ANG KAKABAIHAN!…..frm. ft.polk LA

Comment by marissa

May 27, 2009 @ 8:14 am

good day Jo ann, thanks sa tamang information regarding the bad issues. Wala man artista sa issue o may kilalang tao iisa lang ang dapat isipin na MALI ANG IPAKITA SA PUBLIKO ANG VIDEO.

Si Hayden ang dapat sisihin sa mga nangyari hindi ang mga babae may alam man sila o wala kasi kahit papaano dapat nirespeto ni Hayden ang privacy nila lalo na sa mga video na ginawa nya. Si Hayden lang talaga ang mali sa gulong pinasok niya kung di ito inilabas wala sanang masamang nangyari. Sira na ulo ng Doktor na yan pati si Dra. Belo tinago pa niya hard disk for what? Dapat sinunog na niya yon kung matino pag-iisip nila.Salamat sa information and i pity Kat and the other girls so unfair talaga si Hayden.

Comment by dale

May 27, 2009 @ 10:35 am

I can’t stand people blaming Katrina for biting the hand that fed her, for getting involved w/ a taken man and for engaging in pre-marital sex. Susmaryosep!!! Ang double-standard at hypocrisy ng pinoy huh!!! Bakit ba sa babae lang tinituro and guilt if the man himself was taken, ang lalake mismo ang kumaliwa kaya kung tutuusin mas malaki ang nagawan niyang mali! Kho himself bit the hand that fed, employed, sustained him (and his family). At bakit kung ang babae nag-engage in pre-marital sex ay malaking kasalanan pero kung ang lalaki ay ang gumawa ay ok lang. Hello?!?!? Pre-marital sex is when someone engages in sex before marriage na clearly ay guilty silang dalawa not just Katrina!!! At is pa itong mommy ni Kho, they are all sick in the head–the whole Kho family!!!!

Comment by sexy_inlove

May 27, 2009 @ 7:13 pm

ang OA nyo…bakit yung ibang nabiktima na sex video ang hindi ninyo tulungan..dahil ba kay katrina may mapapala kayo dahil eleksyon na… wag na tayo magmalinis..kung walang pumatol,wala sanang iskandalo..ang hirap kasi sa mga tao nakikita nila ang ibang tao pero ang sarili nila hindi nila nakikta…maraming biktima ng mga videos ang walang pera yun ang mas tulungan nila…puro ang inisip kasi ang mag sariling interes…puro sawsaw!

Comment by lia

May 27, 2009 @ 11:06 pm

well said..many women have done the same but never had to face this ordeal that katrina is going through..no one is perfect. KATRINA HAS TO BE THAT SOMEONE WHO HAS TO FACE THIS STRUGGLE IN ORDER TO MAKE A POSITIVE CHANGE IN THE SOCIETY.because of this issue..many women will become aware of the consequences of their actions should they get into this kind of situation,a bill will soon be passed to protect women againts this crime and mothers will become even more dedicated in guiding their daiughters and sons in the right path.and to you katrina..you may have been ruined..but not totally,fight bravely for in doing so you will redeem yourself by helping so many women out there who are going through the same ordeal.and im so sorry that you have to be the one who should take up this cross to make this much awaited change..May God give you peace n strenghthy through out this ordeal..we will pray for you..stand your ground!

Comment by mrs. rhodita rivera

May 28, 2009 @ 6:53 am

Well said piece.

I agree with you Ms.Maglipon .

More Power to PEP

Comment by s3riously

May 29, 2009 @ 5:33 am

Ms. Editor, very eloquent and well-said piece. However, you claimed that the video became a monstrous aggression by one partner to another but you said so yourself that you have not seen the video.
Sex is sex. It’s a natural thing. Humans are sexual beings. Sure, what’s supposed to be a private and intimate moment between these two consenting adults became public. I felt horrible for all the parties involved, especially to Katrina. I would not wish what she’s going through right now on my worst enemy. Filipinos should stop being prude when it comes to sex. Both of them should have owned up to it. They should have said the minute this circus became big: “Yes, we were in that video(s). We were fools in love, neither one of us wanted that moment of intimacy and lust to get out, but unfortunately it did. Mea culpa. Please respect our privacy at this moment.” End of story.

Comment by ana3103

May 29, 2009 @ 5:20 pm

Thank you Ms Joan, very well said. You got the points and you have full of sense. I appreciate your support for Katrina.
The girl has suffered a lot. Tama sya, patay na sya pero andun pa rin ang sex video nya. Ang pagkakamali ni Katrina ay nagtiwala at nagmahal sya ng isang lalakeng committed na at has no respect for her. I wish her for the speedy inner recovery. God speed Katrina. Only God can give you the perfect that you cannot find to anywhere else.

Comment by missy

May 30, 2009 @ 5:32 am

very well said indeed ms. jo-an!

i really felt sorry for katrina and the scandal she is into right now. and so furious with those insensitive bastard who uploaded the videos. Sana ma karma sila. and i pray na sana mag bayad mga taong to for what they have done.

and to hayden, he is despicable! graveh…prevert…

i saw 2 of the videos…and i agree, there’s really nothing wrong with making love with the people you love. the only things that was wrong in there was the taking of the video without the girls consent…and if the purpose of the video is for hayden’s pleasure…sana di ni delete nya to before it falls down to the wrong hands…and on the first place wala nman ang scandal na to if di nya ni re-record mga intimate moments nya with different girls.

i so pray na sana matigil natong ganitong klaseng video. kasi kawawa talaga yong girl eh, kahit saang anggulo tingnan…and sana to katrina’s family, they should support here all the way…she needs it…

thanks ms jo-an for this very nice blog! ^_^

Comment by fan girls

May 30, 2009 @ 2:33 pm

well said. enough with the damaging videos.

on to lighter stuff.. :)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=50qSWTkYgEg

Comment by Divine_Heart

May 31, 2009 @ 12:20 am

i’m all out support to Katrina… have faith girl! God will provide you the peace of mind and heart you desire….

Comment by Suzette

June 1, 2009 @ 4:48 pm

Thank you Ms. Maglipon for this. You hit it right on
the head.

…I have published or provided a link to this in both my Multiply and Facebook accounts because I strongly feel about the subject and I want people I know to stop making fun, passing on (even copying on cd), and even condemning the poor female victims…

Comment by rebecc acaba

June 1, 2009 @ 11:29 pm

from rebecca.acaba@yahoo.com

Ireally appreciate Jo-ann’s article.. and thanks for all the bloggers who supports Katrina.

Kaya mo ya Kat…. be strong and my prayer is woth u..

Comment by majika_melodie

June 1, 2009 @ 11:53 pm

Sana matuto na c katrina sa nagyari sa kanya…Mahirap kasi yung pumatol pa sya kay hayden lam naman nia na boyfriend na ito ni vicki belo..Kadalaga niang tao pumatol pa sya sa may girlfriend na..Tama din yung cnabi ni vicki na pag lam na na may girlfriend wag na pupunta pa sa mga condo ng lalaki baka may mangyari pa na d maganda..

Comment by inmyopinion

June 2, 2009 @ 5:42 am

Kung ang issue pala ay mali na ipakita sa publiko ang sex video, napatunayan na bang si Hayden ang nagpakalat? Hindi pa nga napapatunayan nakasisi na agad tayo.

Bilang babae, isa din akong advocate ng equality et al so please stop the lecture about double standards and all that.

Pareho silang may kasalanan pero sino ba ang naninisi sa isang tao na hindi pa nga nya alam kung ito ang nagpakalat ng video? Hindi ba at si Katrina Halili?

Please check your posts and stop contradicting your own points.

Stop crying and don’t think na lahat ng tao ay madadala sa paawa effect mo sa tv. Madami pa ding tao na logical at marunong mag-analyze ng mga bagay so please, cut the drama off. Your mother studio owe you projects for you to prove your dramatic skills and not the nation.

At kapansin pansin na ang mga politiko na nakikisakay sa issue, yun mga politikong wala naman binatbat sa issue na may sense.

Saan na nga ba papunta ang Pilipinas?

Comment by Cynthia

June 2, 2009 @ 9:42 am

To Miss Blonde-Skinny Bitch!

I agree with you about TIME CHANGING.

But never , ever use GOD, when you intend to insult somebody. Hope you get my point.

Another thing, never compare the sex video of Paris Hilton with what happened to Katrina. Paris knows that she is being taped. She was even wearing make-up and posing for the camera. In Katrina’s case, she was being videotaped without her knowledge, and that is a BIG VIOLATION on her part as a woman.

From your posting here it seems that you are really enjoying what happened to that poor girl. Excuse me for saying this, maybe you are SICK too just like Hayden.

Comment by isai

June 3, 2009 @ 12:00 am

ms katrina tigilan mo nga ang kaiyak iyak mo dyan.paano ka naman kaawaan at rerespituhin ng ibang tao kong ikaw mismo ay walang respito sa iyong sarili.sana hindi ka pumatol kay hayden,dahil alam mo naman na may gf nasi hayden,pero trinaydor mo parin ang iyong boss at kaibigan.kaya ngayon kinarma kana.ngayon iyak iyak ka.sinabi mo pa binaboy ka.hindi ko nakikita na binaboy ka ms.halili.enjoy na enjoy nga kayong dalawa.kasalanan nyo dalawa ni hayden.dapat nga kayong dalawa ang ikolong.kong mayron mang biktima dito ay si vicky belo na trinaydor nyo ni hayden.sana iwasan mo na ang magsayaw ulit ng careless whisper na naka panty at bra lang.baka maulit ang scandal mo.sayang maganda kapa naman sana.
careless whisper(OUCH)

Comment by hazzle

June 3, 2009 @ 9:13 am

I WOULD LIKE 2 SHARE WHAT I LEARNED REGARDING DRUG TESTING. THIS IS WITH REGARD TO THE RECENT DRUG TEST WHICH KATRINA HALILI AND HAYDEN KHO UNDERWENT. SO, NEGATIVE C MS. HALILI. COZ THEY JUST USED URINE FOR DETECTION. E DI PO BA DI NAMAN DEPENDABLE ANG URINE. Y NOT USE HAIR STRANDS. PARA NIO NAMAN PO NILOLOKOE ANG PUBLIC. DI PO KAMI MGA TANGA.
SEE THIS RESEARCH I HAVE MADE:

Detection periods

The following chart from LabCorp gives approximate detection periods for each substance by test type.[2] The ranges depend on amount and frequency of use, metabolic rate, body mass, age, overall health, and urine pH. For ease of use, the detection times of metabolites have been incorporated into each parent drug. For example, heroin and cocaine can only be detected for a few hours after use, but their metabolites can be detected for several days in urine. In this type of situation, we will report the (longer) detection times of the metabolites.

* NOTE 1: Oral fluid or saliva testing results for the most part mimic that of blood. The only exceptions are THC and benzodiazepines. Oral fluid will likely detect THC from ingestion up to a maximum period of 18–24 hours. Low saliva:plasma ratio continues to cause difficulty in oral fluid detection of benzodiazepines [3]
* NOTE 2: Urine cannot detect current drug use. It takes approximately 6–8 hours or more post-consumption for drug to be metabolized and excreted in urine. Similarly, hair requires two weeks, and sweat, seven days.

Approximate values for detection periods Substance Urine Hair Blood / Oral Fluid
Alcohol 6–24 hours [4] Up to 90 days 12 hours
Amphetamines (except meth) 1 to 3 days[5] up to 90 days 12 hours
Methamphetamine 3 to 5 days[6] up to 90 days 1–3 days[6]
MDMA (Ecstasy) 4 days up to 90 days 25 hours
Barbiturates (except phenobarbital) 2 to 3 days up to 90 days 1 to 2 days
Phenobarbital 2 to 3 weeks[7] up to 90 days 4 to 7 days
Benzodiazepines Therapeutic use: 3 days. Chronic use (over one year): 4 to 6 weeks up to 90 days 6 to 48 hours
Cannabis 3 to 5 days, and sometimes up to 30 days[8] Up to 90 days [9] Up to 24 hours [10]
Cocaine 2 to 5 days with exceptions for certain kidney disorders[11] up to 90 days 2 to 5 days[12]
Codeine 2 to 3 days[13] up to 90 days 2 to 3 days[14]
Cotinine (a break-down product of nicotine) 2 to 4 days up to 90 days 2 to 4 days
Morphine 2 days up to 90 days 1 – 2 days
Heroin 3 to 4 days[15] up to 90 days 1– 2 days
LSD 24 to 72 hours (however tests for LSD are very uncommon) up to 3 days[citation needed] 0 to 3 hours
Methadone 3 days up to 97 days 24 hours
PCP 3 to 7 days for single use; up to 30 days in chronic users[16] up to 90 days 1 to 3 days[17]

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Comment by Tizianella

June 3, 2009 @ 4:38 pm

I couldn’t disagree more with you. Since Yes started I am with you in your battles with Claudine, Richard and Annabelle Gutierrez and now with Katrina. Although some hits Katrina for her indiscreet affair with Kho, for me the issue is not this as Bello wants to when she said if a man has a girlfriend, they should not enter.. Ang kapal ng mukha ni Vicky Bello, retokada naman, Sa totoo lang di naman siya girlfriend ni Kho, cash cow, sugar mommy and all. Ha,ha ha. Nakabili siya ng boy toy. Correct si Lolit, magising ka na Bello and sympathize with the women victims of your boy toy.

Comment by P@s@w@y

June 4, 2009 @ 12:15 pm

finally nag-salita na rin ang network family ni Katrina (GMA 7), i think this would help katrina to stay strong and fight for the battle that she’s now facing. Malaman lang nya na kahit paano na may concern pa rin ang GMA sa kanya whatever happened.

bottom line here is nangayari na ang dapat mangyari and nangyari na yung kinakatakutan nla ng kumalat at lumaki ang issue..but still katrina is the victim pa rin kahit pano..sabihin nyo man na ksalanan nya dahil pumatol sya sa taong may karelasyon or whatever..but she don’t deserved to treat that way..lahat ng tao nagkakasala..kung asawa nga nkukuha ang boyfriend pa kaya…na madaling makuha at matukso. But GMA don’t stop supporting katrina…this is the time that she really needs the support of everybody..siguro manalo or matalo sia dito sa kaso na toh…for sure she’ll be happy dahil kahit paano alam nyang may nakasama at nakaramay sya sa laban na hinarap nya…thanks!

Comment by tinapay

June 4, 2009 @ 3:31 pm

@hazzle

URINE sample din ang ginamit sa drug testing ni Hayden Kho., Jr. so dapat pareho silang magbigay ng hair sample para malaman.

pero pareho rin silang negative?hmmm..di kaya di naman talaga drug user si doc nyakis?di kaya tactic lang nya yun para madivert ang attention?inamin nyang drug addict sya pero bakit negative result ng test? hmmm…i smell something fishy here.

Comment by Nina

June 5, 2009 @ 1:39 am

i have no sympathy for Katrina. Hugas kamay kasi may ebidensya ng kanyang kalandian. What “suffering wife”? She has the makings of querida at a young age. She is living a double life. What a disappointment! Dont tell me its only Hayden she fell ‘in love’ and have sex with. c’mon. Bottomline kulang sa values ang batang ito. She is not even worth of any praise.

Comment by darling24

June 5, 2009 @ 10:38 am

Ms. maglipon, I salute you as a writer and also as a good woman because you have a good heart person. your the best ms. writer because you’re helping ms. katrina to be more strong on this issue.
we all know that katrina made a mistake but we all know also that in terms of love all of us we are blind and fool in that matters.

Ms. Katrina please don’t give up and be more strong.
always pray for our almighty God and he give you more strength to face thisvery difficult trials.

thank you also to all the people here to gave the simphaty to Ms. Katrina she deserve that.

We all know that God is always forgive us, why Ms. Katrina the other people continue judge her, stop judge her we all do is to pray that she move on.

God bless Katrina and many people loves you and understood you.

Comment by Carrie

June 5, 2009 @ 10:16 pm

Just wondering, Ms.Jo-ann, considering there were many girls involved with Hyden in this sex video scandal, how come Katrina halili was singled out? I remember listening to Arnold Clavio’s radio program over DZBB and i can’t help but get annoyed with Lolit Solis as she would name names, without any second thoughts on the implications she could cause the ladies who had sexual relationship with Hyden. Was it her way of getting even with these ladies for Vicky Belo? In the news, Eric Chua pointed to Vicky Belo as the one who has possession of the sex video master copy. But before Eric made his confession, Lolit Solis was telling Arnold Clavio that according to Hyden, Eric will be pointing an accusing finger at Vicky. Lolit was always a step ahead of a suppose-to-be breaking news. I’d like to think na pakana nila ni Vicky Belo ang paglabas ng sex video ni Katrina to ruin her career, para pahiyain siya and to make Katrina pay for supposedly biting the hands of the one who’s feeding her. But what was suppose to be an act of paghihiganti, turned out to be a national issue. They did not see this coming. Thus, damage control has to be done. Kaya naman ang Lolit Solis, biglang nagsimpatiya kay Katrina at tanging dinidiin sa issue ay si Hayden at Eric Chua lamang. She never fails to say that Vicky Belo is such a nice person, that Vicky is also a victim here. Now that KC Concepcion’s name has been drag sa sex video issue, biglang kabig ang Lolit sa radio program ni Arnold Clavio. It was so easy for her to name Katrina, Ruffa Mae, Brazilian model,Maricar Reyes and a beauty queen and so on and so forth nung panahong wala pang lumalabas na video in public, pero nung dumadami na ang mga pangalan na nababanggit na nakarelasyon ni Hyden, kunwari eh, huwag-na-magbanggit-ng-pangalan-at dapat-protektahan-ang-mga-babae ang drama na niya. I’m sure maraming alam at nakita na rin ni Lolit Solis ang mga sex videos ng mga babaeng na-involve kay Hayden courtesy of Vicky Belo pero pinipili lang nila kung sino ang ilalaglag nila. Today in Arnold’s radio program, she was saying that it was impossible for KC to get involve in this kind of act because mataas ang kanyang pinagaralan, nakapagtapos daw siya sa kanyang pag-aaral abroad. Excuse me, hindi porke nakapagtapos ka ng pag-aaral mo abroad,ibig sabihin disente ka na. Never equate education with values. Maraming mahihirap at hindi nakapagtapos sa pag-aaral na may mataas na paghahalaga sa sarili- may values. Look at our politicians and government officials, edukado at may mga kaya sa buhay pero matino ba silang mga tao? Mga balahura din mga yan.
I pity Katrina because even GMA 7, though nagsabi na they are behind her, supporting her in her battle, seems to be distancing themselves. Sana hindi lang sinasabi, ginagawa at pinapakita din sana yung suporta. Kung tutuusin, huli na nga yung paglabas nila ng statement of support nila. When they saw that public sympathy was on Katrina’s side, dun lang sila naglabas ng stand nila about the issue but for awhile, they were quiet about the whole thing. What support are they giving her,I wonder. Are they helping her out with her court case? Will they be true to their word when they said may naghihintay na trabaho for Katrina? Only time can tell.

Comment by arniman

June 5, 2009 @ 11:34 pm

speak for yourself.
this article is so exaggerated.
my life was in no way diminished by these events. and why would i be at an “all time low” because of other people’s actions?
to state in this article that Katrina was violated by the release of the videos and be the editor of a website that
profited from the controversy by giving a blow by blow account is hypocritical and exploitative.

Comment by inmyopinion

June 6, 2009 @ 8:57 am

Ang daming biktima ng violence against women and children related issues pero ito talaga ang napiling gawing wake up call para sa mga kababaihan para lumaban? Come on!

May mga babae na hindi pumatol sa may karelasyon pero na-video din pero ito ang sikat? Ito ang pinapatos ng pulitiko at pinag-aaksayahan ng oras ng ilang utak biya sa Senado?

Ang modelo na kasama sa isang video ay mas maliwanag ang kuha pero nagsalita ba sya at nagpaawa sa publiko?

Katrina Halili, sorry pero alam mo ang karma? Sorry ka na lang kasi matindi ang naging karma mo.

Comment by Inna

June 6, 2009 @ 6:33 pm

It can’t be denied that this piece of article by Ms. Maglipon was very well-written. I commend you for that although there are portions that I don’t agree with her.
Sex within the context of marriage and sex outside marriage are two different things. Sex is moral and legal only when consumed by the husbands and wives. It is wrong to give a justification that because most of the people in the society at this period of time are engaging in sexual activity just for the reasons that they are having boyfriend and girlfriend relationship or that they love each other so they want to express this by committing that act should be accepted already as moral and legal. As humans, we are spiritual beings so we live our lives with the teachings of God.Let us not try to impose our worldly desires as the basis of right and wrong.
Ms. Halili committed a sin. She made the people feel that she was so sorry for what she did. She should be because she did something wrong but Ms. Halili you need to face all the consequences of your acts. In the first place, you are a public figure and our countymen are looking at you with respect in a pedestal so you should have been thankful for this is freely given to you. You didn’t need to study formally for how many years in school and later on pass a board exam to practice your profession and yet the financial, social, and psychological rewards are so much for you to live a meaningful life. Stop crying, you had your piece of limelight. When I watched your sex video, you are not totally a victim because you of legal age consented to and enjoyed the act. Had there not been a video, you still committed the act out of the context of marriage and it is still a sin.
Mr. Kho is a person who has no respect for women and also a sinner because of committing the act out of marriage. You made your oath to serve the public and live by the code of ethics for doctors but you did not live by these because you stained the integrity of your profession with such act with the addition of videotaping.
The bottomline of this is that the family is still the basic and most influential unit of the society. Had it been they thought of their respective families, guidance and teachings taught by their parents before entering into that relationship and committing sexual acts there wouldn’t be any issue about them right now. They definitely have very meaningful life.

Comment by aimee tanj

June 12, 2009 @ 4:29 pm

if i wer 1 of d stupid ladies hayden got in his idiot bait,, napagsiyaman na xa,, at apat-napuan na!!!
aral sa lahat, matutong mag-timpi sa ano mang ka-immoralan,,, or better, do it so discreeeetly,, dats d way lyf goes eh, lalo na sa bansa natin na pulos corruption ang namamayani !!!

Comment by ailaedgarda

June 14, 2009 @ 5:56 am

Thanks, Joan. I knew someone would write something sensible about this whole episode. I’ve been reading the news, blogs etc… and oftentimes it frustrates me that people’s warped sense of morality has overshadowed the real issue i.e. these women (Katrina, Maricar et al) are violated. If people keep on judging them, blaming them and labeling them as immorals, then they simply join the likes of Kho, Belo, Eric Chua, Bistek, Princess, whose sense of morality has plummeted to its lowest ebb.
What right do these people (Belo and gang) have to invade someone’s privacy? What right do this people have to sentence someone (Katrina, Maricar et al) to life for the wrong they think these girls have done to them? Since when is sleeping with someone’s boyfriend a crime liable to a life sentence? Should someone’s ex-girlfriend (Maricar) be shamed for life just because the women in this gang were insecure of her beauty and her talent and the boys in this gang were not able to sleep with her? I apologise if I am carried away by my sentiments, but I am also a woman and a mother. I cry for Katrina who has to lose face just because she has loved someone. I cry for Maricar who has to leave the country and hide elsewhere just because she too has loved this someone. While I cry for these girls, Vicky Belo parades her beautiful self in the company of the President…

Comment by edgarda

June 14, 2009 @ 6:06 am

Thanks, Joan. I knew someone would write something sensible about this whole episode. I’ve been reading the news, blogs etc… and oftentimes it frustrates me that people’s warped sense of morality has overshadowed the real issue i.e. these women (Katrina, Maricar et al) are violated. If people keep on judging them, blaming them and labeling them as immoral, then they simply join the likes of Kho, Belo, Eric Chua, Bistek, Princess, whose sense of morality has plummeted to its lowest ebb.
What right do these people (Belo and gang) have to invade someone’s privacy? What right do this people have to sentence someone (Katrina, Maricar et al) to life for the wrong they think these girls have done to them? Since when is sleeping with someone’s boyfriend a crime liable to a life sentence? Should someone’s ex-girlfriend (Maricar) be shamed for life just because the women in this gang were insecure of her beauty and her talent and the boys in this gang were not able to sleep with her? I apologise if I am carried away by my sentiments, but I am also a woman and a mother. I cry for Katrina who has to lose face just because she has loved someone. I cry for Maricar who has to leave the country and hide elsewhere just because she too has loved this someone. While I cry for these girls, Vicky Belo parades her beautiful self in the company of the President…

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